TTC but today was my due date! :(

[m0nett]

Today was suppose to be the happiest day of my life considering today was suppose to be my due date. I feel really depressed and honestly not in the mood to do anything. Its already been 6 months since the MC -- but it still just seems so much harder for me to move forward. I'm trying my best to think positive but nothing I do makes me happy anymore. I don't know how to deal with this heartache. Anyone -- please share how you were able to deal with the pain. Thanks!

 

[tuckie27]

I'm so sorry for your loss. The due date from my first m/c passed already and it was a very sad day for us Our due date for our 2nd m/c is in June and I'm sure it won't be much easier by then. I guess the only thing that helps me is thinking that my babies weren't healthy enough to thrive in this world and honestly, I'd rather have my 1st trimester m/c's than a stillborn or a baby that died shortly after it's birth like some heartwrenching stories I've heard and I just couldn't imagine how much worse that would be for me, my husband, and for our babies...so I just try and trust that nature knew better than to bring our angels into this world. I know, it's still hard though Wishing you the best in healing from this trauma.

 

[jennyanne83]

Oh Hun I am so sorry

My due date is 5th March, but I'm in cycle 6 after my loss and can see the date approaching fast. I started a thread on here for ladies still trying 5+ months after a loss, as I think its a time where it's all really starting to get to us. Feel free to join that thread as there are quite a few ladies all in the same boat.

I really hope you get your well deserved BFP very soon, and for this nightmare to be eased a little with new hope.

Take care, and maybe see you on my thread?

Jenny

Xxx

 

[hopeful momma]

Sorry that you had to go through that today.
My day will come next month 2/14. Planning on taking the day to remember our baby. I have to other girlies and before we knew we were preg with #3 I had their names put on a necklace. then after the mscrg I had a charm made up for the baby and added it to my necklace so he or she would be close to my heart as well. I also made a keep sake box with the doctors visit card and preg. test. etc
I'm planning on spending 2/14 honoring the life of our precious baby that we miss everyday.
my heart goes out to you. and prayers going up.

 

[Viperbunny]

I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy. I lost my daughter Amelia at six days old due to complications from triosmy 18. I had an emergency c section and was only 29 weeks pregnant. It has been 4 months. She was born 2 days after my wedding anniversary and her due date was November 26. Thanksgiving was not easy. I cried very, very hard and felt like I was a jinx. That I was just bad luck, since her illness was bad luck. I have lost so many people and I feel like I would lose everyone I loved. It's normal to feel that way some days. I know that sucks to say, because it doesn't feel right, but you are not alone. That baby was real to you and you had all that love and hope for the future and the universe let you down. It is okay to feel bad, just know good things do happen. Nothing will replace that child. You will always have the "what ifs." Don't be too hard on yourself. You are not alone and I hope that as time goes on you heal. The pain will never completely go away, but things can get better. Hang in there.