hi there, just wondering if there is anyone else out there with the same approach to ttc as me and hubby? we are ttc #1 and, for the time being at least, doing nothing more than trying to keep track of my cycle and lots!!! there isn't even a hpt in the house - hubby asked me the other day if i had got any, but then we agreed that we would only get them once af is overdue. it sometimes seems like everyone on the ttc section is constantly temping or poas and i sometimes wonder if others think i am not really seriously ttc. not that there's anything wrong with charting etc, but it's just not for us at the moment. i have just come off the pill, but am fairly confident that my cycle should go back to normal straight away, as it has done before, and if i'm right i probably ov'ed at the weekend. we as much as we possibly could and if i did ov, there should be a good chance we timed it well, but obviously will continue to dtd lots just in case my cycle is a bit wonky. of course i realise that this approach may not work for us and am prepared to chart if it doesn't seem to be happening, but i think a lot of people seem to be putting themselves and their oh's under an awful lot of pressure, which i'm not sure i could handle!