seoul - it was hard on dd1 at first, it was confusing to her especially with me being in hospital and then bringing the babies home, i dont quite think she understood, she was a little jealous at first too however now she loves her little sisters and will come and hold their hand while im changing them or if she comes for a cuddle while im bf'ing she plays with their feet - its totally adorable!
it is a little hard if im tandem feeding and dd wants in for a love too, she has had to learn to be patient but dh is around a lot and luckily she is very much a daddies girl which tends to give me a free hand!