TWW after m/c and I'm scared :(

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Hi girls
I should be feeling excited that I am in the TWW so soon but I'm not :(
I suffered an early m/c on 5 September but my HCG levels went back down so fast that it hardly affected my cycle at all...in fact I even OV'd way earlier than usual - CD15 instead of CD19!!! I was really shocked but pleased as we are keen to TTC again...but I have so many new fears, including the fact that around OV I realised I was getting thrush so now I am convinced this has had a negative impact on TTC....and also just the general worry about the possibility that I may have another m/c or worse still just not get pregnant at all...:cry

Does anyone know if thrush stops you TTC? I started getting it on the day after OV and now it is full blown but seems to be clearing a bit this evening.

:dust: Thanks for reading and dust to all! :flower: :dust:
 
I am in exactly the same position. I miscarried at 5+2 weeks on 6th September. My HCG was very low that day so we decided to start TTC straight away and I had a positive OPK Mon/Tues this week. We have BD 4 nights out of 5 and I now think I have thrush with some spotting last night afterwards. I am a medic and have been looking through all of my books and can't see any reason that thrush after Ov would stop a pregnancy but I am so paranoid too. I desperately want to conceive again but am terrified of another loss.
Hopefully the thrush will clear by itself. Try and stay calm, though I know it's easier said than done. Good luck.
 
I am in exactly the same position. I miscarried at 5+2 weeks on 6th September. My HCG was very low that day so we decided to start TTC straight away and I had a positive OPK Mon/Tues this week. We have BD 4 nights out of 5 and I now think I have thrush with some spotting last night afterwards. I am a medic and have been looking through all of my books and can't see any reason that thrush after Ov would stop a pregnancy but I am so paranoid too. I desperately want to conceive again but am terrified of another loss.
Hopefully the thrush will clear by itself. Try and stay calm, though I know it's easier said than done. Good luck.

Sorry to hear you suffered a loss too. We only BD twice, but I noticed after the 1st time I was a little sore, I also read that thrush shouldnt affect conception but I cant see why it wont :( I too am desperate to get this BFP as last month I only had faint lines and deep down I knew I was not pregnant. I hope it is good news for us both x
 
Hi girls
I should be feeling excited that I am in the TWW so soon but I'm not :(
I suffered an early m/c on 5 September but my HCG levels went back down so fast that it hardly affected my cycle at all...in fact I even OV'd way earlier than usual - CD15 instead of CD19!!! I was really shocked but pleased as we are keen to TTC again...but I have so many new fears, including the fact that around OV I realised I was getting thrush so now I am convinced this has had a negative impact on TTC....and also just the general worry about the possibility that I may have another m/c or worse still just not get pregnant at all...:cry

Does anyone know if thrush stops you TTC? I started getting it on the day after OV and now it is full blown but seems to be clearing a bit this evening.

:dust: Thanks for reading and dust to all! :flower: :dust:

I'm scared too. This friday will be 4weeks exactly that i first started my miscarriage. To make things more crappy i was at work. :cry: . I decided to start right away and i did ovulate this month. And i plan to take a pregnancy test this monday if AF doesnt show up first. But just today while i was in the restroom.. I just realize how bout if i am pregnant. I will have to worry all over again. I will be going to the restroom none stop just to make sure im not bleeding....Thats the scariest for me... I dont want it to happen again.. I hope you get a :bfp: and know that your not alone :flower: and lots of :dust: for you!
 
sorry for your losses everyone
i had full blown thrush during ovulation that just didnt let up so i ended up talking to a doctor about it and was told it wouldnt ruin my chances of conceiving (it is also safe to use when you are pregnant) i had the cream and pessary too the way i seen it was i didnt want to not bd and it was too sore to with the thrush so it was either use the medication and get rid of it so we could resume bd the next day or not bd atall and end up with a bfn anyway! funnily enough i conceived that month
 
I'm scared too. This friday will be 4weeks exactly that i first started my miscarriage. To make things more crappy i was at work. :cry: . I decided to start right away and i did ovulate this month. And i plan to take a pregnancy test this monday if AF doesnt show up first. But just today while i was in the restroom.. I just realize how bout if i am pregnant. I will have to worry all over again. I will be going to the restroom none stop just to make sure im not bleeding....Thats the scariest for me... I dont want it to happen again.. I hope you get a :bfp: and know that your not alone :flower: and lots of :dust: for you![/QUOTE]

I know what you mean. I will probably be checking a test every day to make sure it stays positive and going to the loo every hour looking for bleeding. It would still be worth every bit of worry and stress to end up with a little one in my arms though. Good luck for Monday.
 

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