TWW and OH went 2doc today cause of his pain dont know if we could conceive :( TMI

[jaydee79]

hi my OH has been suffering with pain in his bits and bobs and felt blockage which he was first told it could be caused by alot of sex,,, last time we tryd to BD it wasnt happening cause he was in alittle bit of pain,,, so we stopped and gave it a rest and called it a day with the this month hes been to see another doctor today and explain to the doctor again about these pains and felling blockage in there,,, well doctor told him sorry this is TMI, but only way i can describe it is when he feels this blockage his is withdrawing itself back in and its not coming out like it shud the doctor explain to him when he yano,, it is splash backing back and causing his blockage and possible pain, the doctor told him n explain to him when hes inside me theres alot of pressure which is causing it but if my OH was to yano just have a W;;K then its diffrent He can release better those and i said to my OH what we surpose to do use a turkey baster or something He told me today that hes felt like it sometimes possibley when he was a kid we do have one daughter but over time im thinking is it possibley gonna get wrse for us TTC or do u think weve still got a good chance he doesnt seemed so concerned but i am the doc also mention sumfin about his prostoglandins which is a worry here iv alittle upset TBH do u think there is still hope for us weve been trying to use that conceive plus+ i knew i had some poss gyno probs myself n thought it can possibly me but what happens if its both of us and now we could of lost our chances as the years have gone on

 

[Shorty88]

Sorry didn't want to read and run sorry your going throught this.. Have they said there is any cure for this? Sorry tmi but has he managed to cum in you at all this month or has it been to painful?

 

[Cashew]

I'm sorry jaydee, that's a tough curveball you've been thrown. My mum always says where there is a will there is a way. So if you are determind to get there, you will.
Could it be a stress thing for him maybe? Work? Family? Stress causes a whole bunch of nasty things to happen to people when they are under pressure? All hope is not lost. Fingers crossed for you and sending you lots of babydust.

 

[jaydee79]

well the OH doesnt seem to bothered the doctor actually told him its not prostrate cancer cause hes too young for that,, hes only 37yrs old but if it keeps happening to him with the pain hes getting this doctor he saw actually said he wants him to go back to his own doctor, if the pain keeps happening but my OH tried to explain to me tonight that when im actually haven a orgasm sorry TMI Here but only way i can describe it is me helding him back because my vaginal muscles sqeeze his yano and it causes him to get trapped so his is getting forced back inside him this is what the doctor actually explained to him today i told my OH what r we gonna do?? if its not happening and my cervix isnt catchen it, cuz my vaginal muscles seem to be grasping on him like really tight when have a orgasm sorry TMI again but he says hes felt me sqeezing on him numberess of times when hes about to yano,, and i think its me thats forcing his back up there for him,, and this is causing him pain after intercourse Honest to god he told me today i shud of gone along with him to the doctors so the doctor could of also clearly explained this to me,i wish i flippen had now, i thought years ago wen a woman actually climaxs after a man her cervix sucks up the spermy: in my case i think my actual vaginal walls r tighening to much and this is causing him difficulty when hes about to shoot!! and im thinking weither to not erm try and cum at all and think about probs D.I.Y afterwards i know it sounds stupid but am i going off the rails about this i been looking up on the interent about softcups INSTEAD,,,,, I read alittle about it but mention it to the OH and he said WAT EVER IT TAKES... but what happens if we try doing any kind of arround my ovulation time and this keeps happening the doctor i think explain to him when his get forced back up there they get forced up where the male tubes r close to where they actually pee frm i think my OH was experiencing pain after wee,ing after intercourse sometimes and this is what that doctor explained to him about,my OH has experienced all of a sudden dysfunction errections in the middle of BD,ING and wanting to go to toilet because of it,, he advized him to drink lots of water ,,but i dont know if this seriously gonna put a huge strain on us TTC to be honest and our relationship especially if im causing him pain during and after BDing weve been both checked out ans we hav no sign of STD neither iv had the full works done to me the doctor just before TTC to make sure i was ok, and the doctor who saw him dint even want to check my OH over he just wanted to know every detail what my OH had to say and everything hes feeling which is causing his pain

 

[jaydee79]

Sorry didn't want to read and run sorry your going throught this.. Have they said there is any cure for this? Sorry tmi but has he managed to cum in you at all this month or has it been to painful?

no cure but yes lots of times hes managed to try to cum inside me sumtimes iv noticed it running but not all ov his semen is coming its been forced back,, and i thought everything was fine, but last time we had sex was 3 days ago and hes still been in pain from it thats why i surgested him see that doctor again frm last month and get anther opinion but he saw a lady doctor last time and she just blamed it on to much and this time hes seen a man doctor and hes tried to explain to him what his pain is caused by and what it could possibley be i told my OH to tell the doctor everything that we are trying and hes on horny goat weed because hes got serious errection dysfunctions which have helped his errections,, but the doctor wasnt concerned about any horny goat weed or us trying to conceive the doctor was more intrested in actually geeting down to the cause of his pain and explain to him what it possibley is and what is the possible cause

 

[jaydee79]

I'm sorry jaydee, that's a tough curveball you've been thrown. My mum always says where there is a will there is a way. So if you are determind to get there, you will.
Could it be a stress thing for him maybe? Work? Family? Stress causes a whole bunch of nasty things to happen to people when they are under pressure? All hope is not lost. Fingers crossed for you and sending you lots of babydust.

its not stress hun it could be me thats causing it to get forced back up there hes not stressed he tells me everything and we have a very close understanding and talk to each other about our problems and are very open for example if i was on my AF hed go out his way to go to shop for me to get some pads or do anything for me like ask me to put my feet up and he make me a cuppa hes that kinda guy hun he told me he feels so comfortable at the clinic he went to today with the doctor and if hes got anymore problems hes happy to go back and get some more free confidential advice