Ugh.. Guess I should be "thankful"

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  1. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    My husband is in San Diego for 2 months. Well, he's almost been gone a month & he is extremely horny I guess... He won't STOP asking me to send him naked pictures. UGH!! I sent him one and it was so depressing! I look extremely fat and I'm just not in the mood for sending him pics. Well, he's pissed and told me I should be "glad and thankful" that he wants me to send him some.. Uhh.. I'm sorry, but I don't want to send him a picture of my cellulite infested ass. I enjoy being pregnant, but I don't need to see pictures of myself to remind me that I'm a RHINO.
     
  2. gypsymom

    gypsymom Well-Known Member

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    Oh honey, i totally understand!!! I feel anything but sexy these days. My already ample butt has gotten bigger and the cellulite is showing, plus my nipples are really dark and I've gotten stretch marks on my boobs (they look like a road map) so the idea of me being looked at as a sexual person is beyond me, so I understand. In a way it's nice that our OH still look at us that way, but he should be more understanding that you don't feel that way. Hang in there, men are clueless sometimes.:hugs:
     
  3. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    haha I mean, I am okay with it because it just means I am carrying a sweet baby, BUT I'd prefer to close my eyes every time I'm naked and walk in front of a mirror & when we have sex.. I prefer it to be pitch black! HAHAHA.
     
  4. tashak88

    tashak88 Autism awareness!!! 💙

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    ^^^ agreed
     
  5. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    haha by the way, I totally gave in and sent him some pictures. He "loved" them. HAHAHA. So gross!!
     
  6. tashak88

    tashak88 Autism awareness!!! 💙

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    It's really nice to know that me and my DH arent the only ones...hehe

    I've also ran into a little problem....hmm...he wants me to send him pics or whatever, but since I have gotten this belly, I can't groom properly 'down there'....oh my!! soo embarrased to send him pics...he doesnt care (he says) but I do!! haha
     
  7. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    OMG! hahaha me too.. Can't see my department at all. So I'm sure it is a hack job when I do attempt to groom! bahaha
     
  8. Lizzeh

    Lizzeh Aurora <3

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    There's always photoshop if you're worried about him noticing cellulite, heehee
    If it keeps your husband happy, it's totally worth it, right ^^
     
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    Groovychick Well-Known Member

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    CandyApple19 Pregnant with #3, PAL.

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    i've got a 'burger tash' right now and jesus i really do not like the thought of what it might look like...ben doesnt seem to care but i shudder....i must SHAVE.
     
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    miss cakes Well-Known Member

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    men are wierd why is it when you feel like a fat pig with bad hair they find you most attractive but the times when you lost a bit of weight have done yourself up and made the effort they dont even sodding notice!? i do not understand men one bit lol x
     
  12. nkbapbt

    nkbapbt Double Preemie Momma

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    Aside from the jerky "you should be thankful" comment...I think it's actually pretty nice your OH wants pics. It shows he finds you are sexy and beautiful, even when you feel like a rhino!

    I think I would prefer this sort of thing my DH than say a DH who is not at all interested in sex!

    Plus hey...he isn't checking out porn! He just wants to see your beautiful self. And honey...I have seen your bump pics (so cute) and there isn't a flaw on you. Give yourself some credit. :hugs:
     
  13. nkbapbt

    nkbapbt Double Preemie Momma

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    They are utter enigmas. Its a little like when they cannot find things that are RIGHT in front of them.

    I swear they were given outties because otherwise? They would never find them.
     
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    miss cakes Well-Known Member

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    hehe sounds about right!
     
  15. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    Lol its a total catch 22 though isn't it? You try to 'do the gardening' and you can't see to do it but then you feel mortified about going for a wax because you haven't seen 'down there' in months! Whats a girl to do?!
     
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    Men just aren't grossed out when it comes to sex. It's like a male super-power.
     
  17. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    hahaha all true! It's strange, but I am happy that he'd rather look at my preggo ass than a hott skinny girl's :) He was SO happy when I sent him pictures. I just don't get it! Trust me.. there are flaws. My ass hasn't grown at all.. It just dropped? LOL Just flab.. yuck!
     
  18. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    At the risk of sounding like a stalker (which I can assure you I'm not!!) you're blinking gorgeous woman and I'd give my left arm to have your figure pre and during pregnancy! Give yourself a break :hugs: X
     
  19. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    Oh CeeCee.. you are too sweet! Thank you. I just can't help but laugh at myself... I'm Saggy Bottoms over here.. lol It's like gravity pulled down everything! baha..
     
  20. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    I look like one of those funfair mirrors! I think my arms and legs look smaller due to my ever expanding huge torso and bum!
     

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