I am only less than 4 weeks pregnant and I am terrified of m/c or another ectopic. Especially because I have been having some pains and light brown spotting. I try to talk to OH and let him know how I feel and all he says is I am stressing to much and I need to relax. Umm well how does he expect me to relax when all of this is taking place. I do try not to think about it and relax but I am just extremely nervous I cant get my mind off it. I have a hard time sleeping at night. It just really is so much for me.