We are going to my in-laws for Xmas. They have a 3 bedroom place and my brother-in-law will also be down at the same time so this means me, dh, Sophia, and the newborn baby will all be in one room. I imagine it might be a bit of a nightmare because the baby may well wake Sophia up several times over night. Well yesterday dh suggested putting Sophia in the same room as his brother. Bil is 29, single, works with kids, and a lovely guy in general but for some reason I really don't feel comfortable having Sophia sleep alone with him. Dh is a bit offended ad he thinks I'm calling his brother a child molester, I really don't think my bil would do anything, but I'd feel much better having no sleep and knowing my dd is safe. Would anyone do the same or am I just being ott?