Caezzybe
Mummy to Logan & Jasmine
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Hi everyone,
I thought I would share my experience with you in the hope that it might help someone, somewhere.
I'm 41 and had a fairly uneventful pregnancy. Apart from diet controlled gestational diabetes and a low lying placenta which resolved itself, I had a lovely pregnancy with no morning sickness, no swollen ankles, very few stretch marks, no problems sleeping and the ability to do up my own shoes the day before I gave birth.
I had a natural labour and delivery that was really good, I didn't even notice the latent stage and the active stage lasted 8 hours. I arrived at the hospital fully dilated and gave birth half an hour later, having used only a TENS machine and paracetemol for pain relief.
My baby son was delivered straight to me and my husband and I were filled with joy. The next day, I had a look through my notes and saw a few odd looking things, "almond shaped eyes", "large gap between toes". How sweet, I thought, they have put down Logan's identifying features on his notes, he has his Daddy's eyes and his Mummy's toes. I had no idea that these were actually features of Down's.
The paediatrician came round and said something about low muscle tone and said she wanted to say something but wouldn't speak to me until my husband arrived. She later told us she suspected Logan had Down's syndrome and blood tests were taken to be sent off to Wessex for analysis.
Less than a week later, we were devastated to find out that Logan does indeed have Down's syndrome. My antenatal combined screening came back with a risk of 1 in 560, which for my age was fantastic (or so we thought) and to find out after he was born was not something I would wish on anybody. Amnio was not mentioned even once throughout my pregancy. However, if I had known earlier we would not have terminated but it would have helped us to come to terms with things earlier rather than during a time when emotions are all over the place anyway. I also heard about one other person this year who delivered in the same hospital as me who had the same experience so it isn't just me. I guess I'm just posting this to let others know that the screening tests are not definitive and that this sort of thing does happen.
I thought I would share my experience with you in the hope that it might help someone, somewhere.
I'm 41 and had a fairly uneventful pregnancy. Apart from diet controlled gestational diabetes and a low lying placenta which resolved itself, I had a lovely pregnancy with no morning sickness, no swollen ankles, very few stretch marks, no problems sleeping and the ability to do up my own shoes the day before I gave birth.
I had a natural labour and delivery that was really good, I didn't even notice the latent stage and the active stage lasted 8 hours. I arrived at the hospital fully dilated and gave birth half an hour later, having used only a TENS machine and paracetemol for pain relief.
My baby son was delivered straight to me and my husband and I were filled with joy. The next day, I had a look through my notes and saw a few odd looking things, "almond shaped eyes", "large gap between toes". How sweet, I thought, they have put down Logan's identifying features on his notes, he has his Daddy's eyes and his Mummy's toes. I had no idea that these were actually features of Down's.
The paediatrician came round and said something about low muscle tone and said she wanted to say something but wouldn't speak to me until my husband arrived. She later told us she suspected Logan had Down's syndrome and blood tests were taken to be sent off to Wessex for analysis.
Less than a week later, we were devastated to find out that Logan does indeed have Down's syndrome. My antenatal combined screening came back with a risk of 1 in 560, which for my age was fantastic (or so we thought) and to find out after he was born was not something I would wish on anybody. Amnio was not mentioned even once throughout my pregancy. However, if I had known earlier we would not have terminated but it would have helped us to come to terms with things earlier rather than during a time when emotions are all over the place anyway. I also heard about one other person this year who delivered in the same hospital as me who had the same experience so it isn't just me. I guess I'm just posting this to let others know that the screening tests are not definitive and that this sort of thing does happen.