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Does anyone else have a problem with people showing up to their house uninvited
Last night 2 of OHs friends called and asked if they could come up. OH said it would be okay, long as they're gone before 8 so we can get LO ready for bed. So they said they wern't going to bother comming at all.
Then they SHOWED UP without called at 9! After we specifically said!
Do you think my baby is going to go to bed at 10 when the most action that's gone on all day starts at 9? nope! It was supposed to be LOs quiet cuddle time before bed
So LO got to bed at 12 last night instead of 10 that means i'm tired and he's cranky because he certainly didn't sleep in any later.
I made it very clear they wern't welcome here and they did leave pretty quickly.
BUT .. not before calling my baby fat! And saying he'd always be fat his whole life because OH has a bit of a beer belly.Normally I would shrug this off but I was down right pissed off and I told the bugger off for calling him fat! When Jarrett was weighed near Christmas time he was only in the 3rd percentile! and Hes done very well at putting on weight but he's hardly FAT! he MIGHT be 10 pounds atm.
Also I went into the nursery to express without saying anything and heard the one who call LO fat ask where I went. OH said "i'm pretty sure she's pumping" and then he said "That's absolutly discusting , don't go in to any more detail with that please" .. then I heard OH snap back "What? Someone pumps milk out of a cows tit and you drink it! ( ) Wtf is discusting about a baby drinking expressed breast milk?!"
But seriously. Its so rude to show up with out calling Why do people do this? I wouldn't dream of it! Especially not someone with a baby
Last night 2 of OHs friends called and asked if they could come up. OH said it would be okay, long as they're gone before 8 so we can get LO ready for bed. So they said they wern't going to bother comming at all.
Then they SHOWED UP without called at 9! After we specifically said!
Do you think my baby is going to go to bed at 10 when the most action that's gone on all day starts at 9? nope! It was supposed to be LOs quiet cuddle time before bed
So LO got to bed at 12 last night instead of 10 that means i'm tired and he's cranky because he certainly didn't sleep in any later.
I made it very clear they wern't welcome here and they did leave pretty quickly.
BUT .. not before calling my baby fat! And saying he'd always be fat his whole life because OH has a bit of a beer belly.Normally I would shrug this off but I was down right pissed off and I told the bugger off for calling him fat! When Jarrett was weighed near Christmas time he was only in the 3rd percentile! and Hes done very well at putting on weight but he's hardly FAT! he MIGHT be 10 pounds atm.
Also I went into the nursery to express without saying anything and heard the one who call LO fat ask where I went. OH said "i'm pretty sure she's pumping" and then he said "That's absolutly discusting , don't go in to any more detail with that please" .. then I heard OH snap back "What? Someone pumps milk out of a cows tit and you drink it! ( ) Wtf is discusting about a baby drinking expressed breast milk?!"
But seriously. Its so rude to show up with out calling Why do people do this? I wouldn't dream of it! Especially not someone with a baby