Lilli
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Hello,
I'm new to this section :wave:
I desperately want this baby to be a boy and am so scared of my reaction if it turns out to be a girl My scan is on the 26th of March and hopefully we'll find out then. I think if they cant tell at the NHS one, we'll have to have a private one to find out. I need to know in advance in case it is a girl.
I really am dreading it, i just know i'll cry and i'm not even 100% sure why i so desperately don't want a girl... I have a very poor relationship with my own mother so i guess it stems from there.
I just don't want to be upset at the scan and upset DH.
Please someone give me some advice on how to calm down and not get upset about it?!
I'm sure if it is a girl i'll be fine once 'she' is here, just the idea of it now
i feel like an awful mummy to baby already, just cos i'm so unsure of it...
I'm new to this section :wave:
I desperately want this baby to be a boy and am so scared of my reaction if it turns out to be a girl My scan is on the 26th of March and hopefully we'll find out then. I think if they cant tell at the NHS one, we'll have to have a private one to find out. I need to know in advance in case it is a girl.
I really am dreading it, i just know i'll cry and i'm not even 100% sure why i so desperately don't want a girl... I have a very poor relationship with my own mother so i guess it stems from there.
I just don't want to be upset at the scan and upset DH.
Please someone give me some advice on how to calm down and not get upset about it?!
I'm sure if it is a girl i'll be fine once 'she' is here, just the idea of it now
i feel like an awful mummy to baby already, just cos i'm so unsure of it...