I am gobsmacked. She also told me the sex of my baby when I didn't even know......and had decided I didn't want to know. I just phoned her to discuss the possibility of a home delivery. She asked me where I had gotten this idea and that it was a ridiculous request. She told me I was being stupid. And then said as I have big babies there is a risk of baby being stuck and I could hemorrhage! .....she has scared me to death about the fact that I could die in childbirth....I just want to cry! She told me that I was lucky last time I had a girl and that is why she wasn't any bigger than my boy who was 10lb 2 but as this baby is a boy it is guaranteed that this boy will be even bigger than my other boy! I didn't even know I was having a boy!!!!!! I am a little stunned. She also made a big deal about this being my fourth pregnancy as this now makes me 'high risk'.....she has really left me doubting my decision and I don't know what to do!