It's just so frustrating at times, Briss.
One of my friends has PCOS and has went through menopause and is done at 45, but she never wanted kids so she's kind of relieved to have it done and over with and she actually lost weight now that her hormones aren't messing things up, lost 35 pounds.
I was never actually diagnosed with PCOS, but I've had a couple ovarian cysts rupture and all my GYN would ever do is put me on BCPs, then I would lose weight, so the more I look into it, the more I think I do have PCOS, but a mild form. I definitely have had weight issues since I was 13, I do have insulin resistance. Since I have been diagnosed with celiac disease and had to completely change my diet, I had lost 30 pounds, then the weight loss stopped. In the last month, after loads of research on insulin resistance, I added more chromium picolinate to my diet as well as inositol. I lost 5 more pounds and changed nothing in my diet. In the last couple weeks, I also added L-argenine 500mg twice a day, which is supposed to help with high blood pressure (which I have and nothing has reduced it this time, not even Rx meds) and also helps with PCOS. Still waiting to see what happens, I got another week to wait (well, I will be testing, I can't hold out that long). I will post all the vitamins/supplements/teas I tried if this works. Trust me, it's a bunch.