VERY attached to DH

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  1. vejables

    vejables Well-Known Member

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    hello ladies,

    lately i have been feeling quite strange towards dh. i can't even go to the bathroom without him!!! i feel the need to have him around me CONSTANTLY, otherwise i get very sad. you should see me try to go to work!!! sometimes i even end up crying on my way out. (have called in quite a few times just so i didnt have to leave.)

    anyone else have this? i thought i was supposed to want him to leave me the hell alone! lol (but im sure he's enjoying the attention)
     
  2. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    Can't relate ...

    Sex wise is leave me the hell alone lol

    Maybe your feeling vunerable at the moment - emotional on top x
     
  3. marley2580

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    I went like this. The whole 1st trimester I couldn't bear to have him around, then one night it all suddenly changed and I needed him to cuddle me every night till I fell asleep. About two days later my sex drive came back, unfortunatly we were camping at the time with a group of kids, so we had to get creative (and quiet!). From then on I wanted him to be around and in physical contact with me all the time. The sex drive's tapered off a bit, but that's more to do with the big bloody bump getting in the way. Anyway, I'm still craving that closeness, which is very unlike me, but only in private - no PDAs for me!
     
  4. Layla

    Layla Well-Known Member

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    :hugs:

    i can kind of relate, we havent had a sex life for ages now and i feel so bad for Jase but i just cant bring myself to do anything.

    But i still want him near me, i find myself following him about teh house some days, if he gets up and leaves teh room i will follow him, its like im a little puppy lol i just have to know where he is and that hes close all the time

    x
     
  5. turbo_mom

    turbo_mom Guest

    I too have been feeling this way as well. Not quite as extreme. But when he left last week to Toronto I was a wreck. Stressed out, crying, heart rate was through the roof..lol
    Now I just want to be beside him always and I cant go to bed without him. Him and I have always been close but lately I just miss him all the time much more than usual. Dont feel bad for it. Just enjoy it and embrace it because soon enough none of us will be feeling the same lol All the attention will be on the lil one!
     
  6. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    Oh I hate being on my own - OH went out all day Sunday & I was lost - hes out moro all day and I feel lost already x
     
  7. turbo_mom

    turbo_mom Guest

    Yeah im laying on the couch watching tv not wanting to go to work later so that I can just lay here with him all night LOL. He loves it though
     
  8. vejables

    vejables Well-Known Member

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    thanks guys! must be the hormones huh?
     
  9. Imi

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    Yep hun there a bitch!

    Enjoy it though hun cause when LO arrives you'll be that knacakrd all you will wanna do is sleep!!

    I just got in from work and im screwed im so tired!

    Stay up to feed LO lol, its nice to have lots of cuddles it relaxes me :)

    xxx
     
  10. vejables

    vejables Well-Known Member

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    thanks for the advice imi!! maybe it's nature's way for telling me to enjoy my hubby while i still can!!! :)
     

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