Hi girls, sorry not really a third trimester question but wondered what is everyone doing about visitors after baby is born? My section is in 4 days and I had planned to have grandparents visit the day after in hospital as I'd find this less stressful so we can have a peaceful few days at home (getting used to bf and my daughter getting used to being a big sister, also the first few days after a section) but turns out I might be home the next day and feeling a bit stressed now.
I had certain family members trying to take over when my daughter was born, taking her off me the minute I walked through the door, going in a mood if they couldn't bottle feed her (I didn't bf with my first) and complaining they didn't get time with her on their own enough, to name a few. It ended in a big falling out that has since been patched up but was awful at the time. Really don't want a repeat.
I'm trying to decided whether to have vistors on the first day home this time for an hour or two then request no visitors for a few days as I just want to be with my own little family or have them visit after a few days? I know with the day 3-4 hormones though and milk coming in, I might regret that.
I'm setting clear boundaries this time though that I will not be putting up with anyone demanding baby of me and if they don't like it, not my problem. Has been good until today when it seemed like it's headed that way again and am determined I'm putting a stop to it before it starts this time.
Sorry, this is long but just wondered what you would do? And what you are doing re, visitors? Thanks
I had certain family members trying to take over when my daughter was born, taking her off me the minute I walked through the door, going in a mood if they couldn't bottle feed her (I didn't bf with my first) and complaining they didn't get time with her on their own enough, to name a few. It ended in a big falling out that has since been patched up but was awful at the time. Really don't want a repeat.
I'm trying to decided whether to have vistors on the first day home this time for an hour or two then request no visitors for a few days as I just want to be with my own little family or have them visit after a few days? I know with the day 3-4 hormones though and milk coming in, I might regret that.
I'm setting clear boundaries this time though that I will not be putting up with anyone demanding baby of me and if they don't like it, not my problem. Has been good until today when it seemed like it's headed that way again and am determined I'm putting a stop to it before it starts this time.
Sorry, this is long but just wondered what you would do? And what you are doing re, visitors? Thanks