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aob1013
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Just wondering what everyone else is going to be doing regarding visitors.
I will be in hospital for a few days with Leni, as i have GBS. In that time, only immediate family will be allowed to visit, i.e - My Mum, Dad, Brother, and OH's Mum and sisters - of course asking me first.
Back at home, only immediate family again for a week. After that first week, i will then think about inviting people round.
People turning up at my door without asking first, will be turned away.
The way i see it is, people only want to come over to hold and coo over a newborn baby, not to see me (lets be honest). My son isn't a show off accessory, and i don't want him to be community held - if they are that desperate, they will still be desperate to see him when he is a few weeks old.
I also don't want to have to get dressed, or entertain people, or run off to another room in my own house to breastfeed. I also think the first few weeks, should be limited to help bonding between parents and babies.
What are your plans?
I will be in hospital for a few days with Leni, as i have GBS. In that time, only immediate family will be allowed to visit, i.e - My Mum, Dad, Brother, and OH's Mum and sisters - of course asking me first.
Back at home, only immediate family again for a week. After that first week, i will then think about inviting people round.
People turning up at my door without asking first, will be turned away.
The way i see it is, people only want to come over to hold and coo over a newborn baby, not to see me (lets be honest). My son isn't a show off accessory, and i don't want him to be community held - if they are that desperate, they will still be desperate to see him when he is a few weeks old.
I also don't want to have to get dressed, or entertain people, or run off to another room in my own house to breastfeed. I also think the first few weeks, should be limited to help bonding between parents and babies.
What are your plans?