Wanting to be married before baby

[mummytobe_93]

I think being married before you have kids is great my parents were but to be honest it's the 21st century now, being married doesn't mean it will last and not being married doesn't mean it won't. M
If you want to get married before baby is born than do it but do it for the right reasons and don't just rush it because you want to be a good example.

I'm pretty sure my parents wish I was married before I had my kids and I was scared to tell my grandparents but they all said to me that times have moved on now and things are different. I don't think not being married is a bad thing having a child is a bigger commitment than marriage can ever be. I plan to get married in the next few years but I don't see the rush things are different now and children aren't penalised like they used to be I think it's actually pretty much the norm now xx

 

[mummytobe_93]

Also when I said rush it I meant rush planning it as I know you've been together quite a long time x