As soon as we started announcing, people started asking this. First person was hubby's mom, and he flipped out on her, telling her that it's none of her business, that it's rude to ask, and that it doesn't make any difference anyway. I've had 5 other people ask me, varying from people I work with, to close friends. I was really not expecting this, as hubby and I have been married 3 and a half years and have always told people that we want to have kids. We just never told anyone we were trying to get pregnant, ESPECIALLY after the miscarriage. So, is this a question that people usually ask? Is the concensus that it's rude, or normal?