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I am so sad, we have to leave our lovely 2 bedroom flat and move back home Devon to live with my partners mum. I got fired for being pregnant in july and couldnt find a job so my partner has been trying to pay for everything but we just cant afford it anymore
I was looking forward to having our own flat to start a family in when baby Jamie arrives xmas eve(ish), and i love us being independant from our families. It is a 2 story house that are moving to and partners mum has a lounge and bedroom upstairs, downstairs is 2 bedrooms and a lounge, as well as the bathroom and kitchen. If we had the downstairs bedrooms and lounge to ourselves it would be great, we would have some independance still and we would have enough room cos we have so much stuff! However partners sister has one of the rooms and wont move out and live with her friend like she wanted to, she has it too comfy there. We are going to have to fit into everything into one room! from a 2 bed flat!!!
I should mention that partners sister and i hate each other and do not even speak at all. I am not going to feel at home at all and have to bring a baby up in these surroundings for 9 months until we move back to southampton. I wont go in the lounge if she is there, i'll be stuck in my bedroom all the time! I'm so mad that she wont move out, partner says she will probably at some point but thats no guarantee! But theres nothing i can do, no one else has the room for us!
It's going to be so hard being a new mum, i dont want to deal with all of this at the same time, i want my own space! Advice please anyone?
I was looking forward to having our own flat to start a family in when baby Jamie arrives xmas eve(ish), and i love us being independant from our families. It is a 2 story house that are moving to and partners mum has a lounge and bedroom upstairs, downstairs is 2 bedrooms and a lounge, as well as the bathroom and kitchen. If we had the downstairs bedrooms and lounge to ourselves it would be great, we would have some independance still and we would have enough room cos we have so much stuff! However partners sister has one of the rooms and wont move out and live with her friend like she wanted to, she has it too comfy there. We are going to have to fit into everything into one room! from a 2 bed flat!!!
I should mention that partners sister and i hate each other and do not even speak at all. I am not going to feel at home at all and have to bring a baby up in these surroundings for 9 months until we move back to southampton. I wont go in the lounge if she is there, i'll be stuck in my bedroom all the time! I'm so mad that she wont move out, partner says she will probably at some point but thats no guarantee! But theres nothing i can do, no one else has the room for us!
It's going to be so hard being a new mum, i dont want to deal with all of this at the same time, i want my own space! Advice please anyone?