my bladder has got a mind of its own one min al be fine and the next im dying for the toilet and if i dont go there and then its too late and i leak. its a bit like a uti but my water samples have been clear and i have no pain. im only 24 and already im wearing tena lady daily. it doesnt happen all the time and its not a big wee, just the start of it, i cant keep it in. does anyone else have this? ive spoken to my midwife and she said im fine and just do pelvic floor excersises but i feel really awful at only being 24 and being incontinent, its embarrassing.