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took Rubes to baby clinic to have her weighed today, (shes 20lb!!! - height 99.6th centile, weight 99th - so all good!)
i said i wanted to speak with her about weaning, and she immedietly said 'shes ready' now.... i do think she is close to ready, but how did she say that based on a 5 min chat about other stuff, and weighing and measuring her??
i said i wanted to do BLW but wasnt really that sure about when to start .... i feel we should be starting now, but everything says 6m'
she said 'all id say is be very careful with BLW as ive seen it go so wrong'
?????????
she was banging on about not getting what she needs, and developing food aversions as there is such a narrow window of oppertunity for trying new tastes & textures.....
but i thought that was the point..SHE chooses what she wants to try and when, and avoids food aversions / issues by being in control?
she gave me a weaning leaflet, and basically said jill rapley was great, and BLW idea was great but in reality they need a mix of both???? i said yep im hoping to do some purees too but on rice cakes etc, and she said 'a spoon is important too' i told her i was happy to give roo a spoon to feed her self with and she said ' no they need fed too'
i dont want to be shoving spoonfuls of stuff into her.. making aeroplane noises, and doing the whole 'one more spoon for mummy' thing........
is she just weird & old school, or what?
shes our community BF support HV too,,, calls her self feeding advisor, so surely she should be clued up on these things? shes only in her 30's so not like shes ancient and not aware of blw??
im confused now