So my husband and I are planning a welcome home baby party after Baby B is here. We have decided to stay team yellow this time and will not be announcing the name of the baby until it is born. Sooo we thought it would be a good idea to announce the name and gender of the baby the day of the party. My Mom got upset about this idea, she said its rude and not practical. I also decided to not allow anyone in the hospital the first day or two, so we have time to bond with the baby and again I got that I'm being completely rude. Was she just over reacting or am I totally monster mom?