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So I discovered yesterday when my daughter was 2-3months old - her scum bag of a father went and slept with a girl from work - all arranged in a hotel and everything. Her boyfriend facebooked me and told me about it and left me her number to ask her about it. It's all true 100%.

Only yesterday we were talking about our future, trying for a brother or sister and how we'd love to get married etc. now - it's totally over and ruined. They did it twice so it wan't even a mistake or a once off!

I'm beyond furious, hurt and upset, and grieving for the hopes and plans for mine and Abigail's futures that won't ever come true. I can't even begin to tell you how destroyed I feel. I swear - I will lose every oz of this baby weight and more. I will make something of our lives. But right now all I want to do is sleep or curl up in to a ball and cry :cry:
 
Oh Hun, I'm so sorry :( Some men are douchebags. You're right though! Take your time to grieve and then you go and do what you want with yours and your baby girl's lives!!! :hugs: to you hun. I hope you sort things out real soon.

XxX
 
What a moron.

Hang in there you *hug* have your day to cry and be upset but after that no more tears. Your baby needs a strong mum! X
 
I'm sorry hun. What an arsehole. You deserve so much better than to be treated like that. It's his loss. He's thrown everything away. You will be hurting so much but then it will get better. Big hugs xx
 
oh hun i hope you are ok. :hugs: :hugs: just remember you have your beautiful abigail to love and cherish.

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:hugs: Scumbag! Hugs to you Hun! But at least you found out reasonably early rather than wasting more time on him. Take the time to grieve and then move on to bigger and better things for you and your LO! You are worth so much more than that! :hugs:
 
im so so sorry :( did u confront him yet?
 
What a moron.

Hang in there you *hug* have your day to cry and be upset but after that no more tears. Your baby needs a strong mum! X
 
I'm so so sorry hun. You and your daughter deserve so much more than that.

You've got the right attitude though. Give yourself the time to cry and grieve but know that you will be better off and your daughter will grow up very proud of her strong mummy. By not standing for his behaviour you're already proving yourself to be the best role model you can to your little girl.

Huge hugs xxx
 
im so so sorry :( did u confront him yet?

Yeah, I was at his when I got the message. He denied it at first til I said I had her number and was going to go and ring her then it all came out about how I hadn't "gave him sex or cuddles, and he didn't feel loved or close to me" OH that old chestnut!

He is hounding me today and doing my head in! It's so messed up. We also live 40mile away from each other so it's just not simple at all. I'm just totally heartbroken :cry::cry:
 
Shocking!!! I am so sorry you're dealing with this :( :hugs:

Is he hounding you to stay with him? Pfft he should have thought about all of that before he did what he did. You will get through this hun, hold your head up high - time heals, it will get more bearable. :hugs:
 
Shocking!!! I am so sorry you're dealing with this :( :hugs:

Is he hounding you to stay with him? Pfft he should have thought about all of that before he did what he did. You will get through this hun, hold your head up high - time heals, it will get more bearable. :hugs:

Yeah, apparently we can get married, he's suddenly found 10K we can use for a deposit and we can give Abigail the brothers and sisters we dreamt of - all things we couldn't afford yesterday that suddenly we can have now!

He makes me so mad. He's making me madder and madder as the day is going on :cry::growlmad:
 
Unbelievable. So he has kept that all aside to use as a tool to keep you? Sounds like it. What a jerk. You're making the right decision.
 
that is just awful, so sorry he's done this to you! :hugs: by the sounds of it you and your LO are better off without the douche

x
 
Shocking!!! I am so sorry you're dealing with this :( :hugs:

Is he hounding you to stay with him? Pfft he should have thought about all of that before he did what he did. You will get through this hun, hold your head up high - time heals, it will get more bearable. :hugs:

Yeah, apparently we can get married, he's suddenly found 10K we can use for a deposit and we can give Abigail the brothers and sisters we dreamt of - all things we couldn't afford yesterday that suddenly we can have now!

He makes me so mad. He's making me madder and madder as the day is going on :cry::growlmad:

I'd say well if you have that kind of money I'll let the CSA know! Stay strong hun xx
 
I agree with PP. I'd make him worried about you going to claim CSA. I bet he will then change his attitude. You & your daughter deserve to be happy and not have someone like that cheats. Hold your head high and be strong for you and your little girl. Big hugs xx
 

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