I've put on like 15-20lbs in the past couple of months, and all of it appears to be settling on my thighs/ass. My largest pair of jeans are a little tight around my thighs, and have caused some chafing right where my stupid fat thighs rub together. No biggie, this has happened before, I can handle it. But, um, I also seem to have some chafing on my lady bits. When I finally managed to get a mirror angled just right so I could even see down there at all , it looks like the outer labia parts are chafed. All red and tender and a bit swollen (which is probably what caused the chafing). I didn't even realize it was POSSIBLE to chafe down there, but now that its happened... is there anything I can put on it to make it feel better?? I have lanolin creme... would that help? I can't believe this has happened... I want my body back!!!