so i thought i might aswell get up and tell you about me while the OH's sleeping!
Me!
Age: 22
Height: 5"5ish
weight: fat!! (clothes size 16-18)
hobies: baking, spending time with my animals (6yr old rhodesian rigdeback called Cassie cross, 18month old staffy - Bella, 2nd half yr old yemen chameleon - Darwin, 18month old crested gecko - frankie, 7month old bearded dragon - Leya, R.I.P Riff-Raff - 2yrold crested gecko) spending time with my fiance.
OH!
Age: 31
Height: not far off 6ft!
weight: 56k at last gym visit 6months ago! so now slightly less!!
hobbies: football, pub with the lads occasionally, technology, mainly originating from Apple! and of course spending time with me
we went on our first date on 31st July 2010, and have saw each other pretty much everyday ever since! at my Godson's christening in October 2010 he suggested we started to look for our own place to rent in the new year, i was stunned as he hadn't even told me he loved me at this point, i had told him but he'd not said it back. in my mind i thought well yes ok but only if you've said those three little words by then, but also by him saying this i knew that he must do. christmas 2010 he stopped at my mine/parents house, we woke up early to open our presents with each other my last one was a great big box as i opened it a balloon popped out which said i love you on it, then he gave me my christmas card and he'd wrote the most romantic things int and simply said 'do you know how hard it is for me to not tell you i love?!'
in January we found a house to rent, only a little 2bed, but after a couple of months we started to grow out of it. we decided to start TTC in june after my Uncles wedding in Venice (posh i know!!) and had a faint positive the first month we started TTC followed by a BFN and my period a week later. unfortunately the week before we went to Venice the company my partner worked for (Focus DIY) went into administration and he was made redundant shortly afterwards. even now he is still on the agency as its it ni on impossibly to get a job here atm.
July this year we went on holiday to my Nan's caravan in the New Forest during my works shutdown and on 31st (one year after our first date) i got up and got showered and ready to go out, after he had gotten up and showered we were sat on the sofa deciding what to do that day when he put his hand in his pocket and pulled out a ring box saying well i was going to ask you to marry me i burst into tears said yes and cant quite remember the rest of the morning!! later that week we decided it would be wise to move back in with my parents providing they'd have us so that we could start saving for a mortgage, we gave ourselves 12 months or however long we had once we were expecting.
at the end of November my Grandma took ill and passed away a week later (2nd December), this was a complete shock to us as although she was 94 she was still active and living on her own. it still hasn't sunk in! a couple of weeks before this we found out my SIL to be was pregnant, this completely shattered me and i almost gave up TTC. she hurts me every time she's here saying she hates the baby because she's getting stretch marks and that my brother raped her and she had nothing to do with it (trying to be comical but offending my mum every time)
so here we are now living with my parents desperate to move out and get our own place, seeing a mortgage advisor in the new year to see what he can do for us and hoping that 2012 is less eventful and brings us a house and sticky bean!
my brother is getting married on 24th March 2012 in Newcastle (where his fiance is from) and i intend to loose loads of weight by then so that i'm not the fattest person in a dress (i am overweight, and am scared to weigh myself until all the Christmas food has gone!!!)
i guess the only other thing to know about me is i have 7 tattoos
and love my fiance (Simon) more than anything in the world, i cant imagine not being with him and cant wait to make him a daddy
i think thats pretty much it other than my brief medical histroy in an earlier post (no hormones - off the pill - hormones returned within three months - prolactin raised - scan and internal scan to check ovaries are ok - results all clear - check for poss tumour on hormone gland whose name i cant remember
- all clear in August 2010)
thats me
oh and my dream is to open a vintage cafe serving cream teas, cakes, etc and calling it Flossy's Fancies after my late Grandma :') xx