Im really struggling to come to terms with the fact that i will be giving birth this time next month. I dont no what it is that bothers me the most but im sure its not the pain. Ive been with my husband for 7 an a half years an in that time i have never broken wind in front of him so i would say i am probably quite prudish so i am a bit worried about how he is going to cope with all the mess an nastyness (were having a home birth). Or maybe i am worried for myself about what he is going to see! Anyways what i was wondering was what comes 1st, broken waters or labour pain! If i get labour pains 1st i can prepare for the embarasing gush of breaking waters. I just dont feel like i am going to be able to cope with any of this, what if i cant get the baby out! So many things going through my head i feel likes its going to explode!!!!