Rebecca keeps sticking her hands down her throat when she isn't getting paid any attention, and starts wrenching. I thought she would grow out of it, but she hasn't, its getting more frequent-what on earth do I do? I tell her no, she listens usually after the 7th time then starts pulling her hair! It's all attention seeking, but surely at 9 month that's a bit young? Or am I going to have my hands full?