what does this mean?

[cakecustard]

Hi ladies I have been ttc for 17mths!!! Within these months I have been 27 day cycle however this summer I had 31 day and 24 day cycle but now back to 27. AF due today no sign however I have checked my CP and its low but feels hard (quite prominent and big if that makes any sense) what does that mean?? I am going to use opk's if AF arrive this month. I have had terrible nightmares the last few nights and last week i wiped after a wee (sorry tmi ) and it was pinky cm i'm praying its implantation. Does CP count for much and how do i work out what it means??

 

[ToxicFox92]

your cervix should rise if pregnant and become softer.
If not pregnant it should be relatively low and firm (though you can be pregnant and it be low and firm). It must be said that if pregnant not every woman's cervix will change positions at the same rate. Some women will experience their cervical changes earlier than others. Some changing before AF and others weeks or months after AF is due. So just because your cervix is low and firm doesn't necessarily mean you are not pregnant. Your cervixs is high, open, soft and wet during ovulation. After ovulation it returns to a low, closed, firm and dry position. It will stay like that until after AF (unless pregnant...though like I said before if pregnant you might not always see a cervical change).