What have we done to deserve all this?

[bbyno1]

aww so sorry to hear about everything your going threw right now big x

 

[holly2234]

so sorry, i hope everything turns out ok

 

[totallyashley]

Aw I am so sorry to hear about all your bad news! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. I hope everything turns out alright. Don't ever see it as someone punishing you as you have never done anything wrong to recieve a "punishment" like that. I wish you guys all the best and if you ever need to talk I am a good listener

 

[SarahhhLouise]

Things like this will only make you stronger hun!! I hope everything turns out okay for you huni, Im sure it will hun. Big Hugs for you though xxxx

 

[Jadelm]

Scan today went sooo well she has a nasal bone

Mum's seeing the doctor tomorrow so *fingers crossed* it's nothing. xxx

 

[Jemma_x]

So glad your scan went well and i really hope its nothing when your mum goes to the docs tomorrow x

 

[AyaChan]

awww Jade xxxxxx

 

[cabaretmum2b]

So glad your scan went well, I saw on your facebook and assumed it had You're going to have such a beautiful baby girl!

 

[Youngling]

Glad scan went ok. Told u it would be nothing to worry about.
Sorry to hear about ur mum hun, fingers crossed thats nothing too.
Positive thoughts coming ur way : )
xx

 

[Eabha'sMum]

oh jade!! first oh all...

you know we all on here think the absolute world of you... wish i could help!!
all i can say is, you have dealt with everything with such grace and dignity... and although it is horrible, i know you can handle it!! praying it turns out to be good news... and that if it isn't you have the strength you need!

you ever need a chat, pm me... xx

 

[lily123]

Aww Jade
I'm so sorry you're going through this right now! thinking of you hun. i'm so glad your scan went well, fantastic news xxx

 

[Mellie1988]

Glad the scan went well Jade really hope its good news tomorrow aswell!

x

 

[mayb_baby]

Jade I posted a thread similar to yours in the fact that I felt my family was cursed as its always bad news and never good news (posted in January) it basically said about my shit situation at the time:

Cancer hits close to home with me too as my nanas just finished battling cancer last month (lymph nodes) in her neck and breast and was in and out of chemotherapy which was heart breaking as she’s one of the nicest people I know!

My step-dad (who I love just as a dad, well he is a dad to me lol) is cancer free 4years now he had testicle cancer and it spread to his pancreas and his stomach he had radio therapy and is doing great now!

In January my mum had a scare as she had a lump in her breast but all is well thank god it was just a scare.

My little sister has muscular dystrophy and lost the power of her legs in June 2009 MD has no treatment let alone a cure, especially her type. We are just living one day at a time as she now needs oxygen at night, her arms don’t work properly and she’s know losing her sensation to know when she needs to go to the toilet.

My dad’s not interested in me hell chat on FB but that’s it, that doesn’t bother me I prefer him out of the picture

5 Alcoholics who try to make my life and my mum’s a living hell and she keeps trying to help them (They don’t want help however)

I struggled with a slight ED and from 15, I lost my bubs in January as you know but I got up and on with all of this and I agree with the post we are dealt what we can deal with.

Your story is so sad and everyone’s right you don’t deserve this but you will become a stronger and better person through your hardships and I am delighted to hear your LO is fine. Sorry for over taking your thread just wanted to share xxxx

 

[Jadelm]

Aw thanks hun, I'm so sorry for all the stuff you've had to go through/are going through. It's true I feel like such a stronger, deeper and essentially better person than who I was just over a year ago. And just think... that means we will be better mummy's

It makes you more humble and grateful for all the little things too. You learn to treasure the little moments and to try to live life to the fullest because you just don't know when it's going to end. This time last year my Mum and Dad were the happiest they'd ever been, they went to Glastonbury together and had the time of their lives and wished they'd started doing things like that sooner but vowed to really make the most of things from then on. A week after they came home my Dad started to get symptoms of the cancer that would end his life just 9 months later

I think my point is, that for anybody who is reading this, make the most of every single day and fill it with the things and people that make you happy. For too long my parents worked their arses off for other people and got nothing but ingratitude and stress in return, those same people were nowhere in sight when my Dad was ill and my mum had to care for him single-handedly.

Urgh I keep going off the point... JUST BE HAPPY PEOPLE xxx

 

[MiissDior]

didnt want to read and run babe ​

 

[MissMamma]

Awh Jade you're such an amazing person, and okay i only know you from BnB but you seem like such a strong, considerate person. I am so pleased for you about the scan and i hope it's all good news tomorrow with your mum.
Big hugs

 

[LizzieC]

So glad your scan went well hun, and let's hope all's well with your Mum too

I've never understood how so many horrible things can happen to one person, it really tests the whole "everything happens for a reason" philosophy :/ I hope only good comes from this xx

 

[futuremommy91]

Hope all is well with your mom's results- it's horrible playing the waiting game

 

[samone00]

Im sorry sweetheart god will not Put you through any thing you cant handle the only thing you can do is be strong ...p.s you nd your family are in my prayers

 

[lushious09]

I know how it feels hun, my mum always says some of us are just born unlucky but i feel you have to feel pain and go through so much crap to really appreciate when good things happen! i believe in karma and that one day everything will turn round and you will get the happyness you deserve... hope everything turns out ok for you hun xxx