ok so obviously the best way to start Off ttc is to know you are both fertile well neither of us have been tested to see our fertily rates. But i have no family history of infertility both my sisters have had no problems getting pregnanct same with the cousines and everything seems fine. But for Him, He refuses to get tested in fear that his infertile so theres no real way of knowing! his mom had to take fertility drugs but ends up she was already 3 months pgnt with him while taking them which caused one of his kidneys to fail which needed to be removed at birth. Im really scared that these drugs causes infertility problems for him but he wont get tested! + i also heard Kidney problems can causes fertility problems so thats not a good sign for Us :S Is there others ways to know a males fertily or at lease to improve our chances?