summer rain
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peanutbean; I could hire a doula but from my understanding, a doula is more of an assistant and not really trained to handle the whole gamut of delivery (I may be wrong here; but the doulas I have known have been like that). So I'd still have to wait for the midwives to show up. We were planning to hire an independent midwife for this pregnancy, but I got pregnant sooner than I thought and financially it just hasn't been feasible.
I've had the whole 'its so dangerous and you couldn't get to hospital in time if something went wrong' thing from people who live further from a hospital than me; thankfully some people have been surprisingly supportive; including dh's aunt who comes from a country where homebirth is illegal but most women give birth in birth centres, and there are much lower rates of intervention than here.
I've had the whole 'its so dangerous and you couldn't get to hospital in time if something went wrong' thing from people who live further from a hospital than me; thankfully some people have been surprisingly supportive; including dh's aunt who comes from a country where homebirth is illegal but most women give birth in birth centres, and there are much lower rates of intervention than here.