what should be avoided? EVERYTHING

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Thats how i feel ib been told so many things to avoid and thats left me with nothing i can really eat... its driving me insane there are too many rules my mum was telling me when she was pregnant with me she was told smoking was bad but it wasnt such a big thing not to drink no drugs and no raw meat make sure everything is well cooked and left to it now people keep tellingm e if i eat something their will be DIER consequences and making me feel bad for forgetting to wash a carrot befor eating it


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Have to agree with you..first this is no good then the other.. I just stuck to the sensible things like no raw meat/eggs and watch out for unpasturized stuff. If you were to follow all the stupid do's and donts then what would we be left with?
 
i'm the same with the carrot thing!!
ha... nd then tell myself off for bein so silly.
i can understand why we shouldn't drink / smoke / do drugs nd eat undercooked food... but how will our babies build up a resistance to anythin if we protect them from everything xx
 
I didn't change my diet at all I don't like fish so never had shellfish the only thing I did was get my steak medium/well instead of medium, I ate peanuts & mayo.....If I was out for a meal & wanted a wine I'd have one.... I don't smoke so that didn't affect me....

Like gemabee said how will I'll babies build a resistance if we over protect them....

A friend is overly cautious & her lo has always got a cold or something another is exactly the same as me and she's never been ill and is almost 3.....
 
It's like the government want to build a paranoid society, so we're all like little robots too frightened to do anything unless it's okayed by them first.
If we're scaremongered about every last little risk, how are we meant to know which are the real baddy risks and which are extremely remote risks??
And rightly put by ladies above, how are children meant to build up immunity to things if they're never exposed to anything?
I'm gluten intolerant too, so with my MS plus all the health warnings, I'd be living on Pregnacare alone LOL.

(God that felt good to rant!! Thanks!!)
 
ha atleast im not alone with this, but worst thing my OH has read up all what to avoid and ignored what not to so if im about to eat say a soft boiled egg hed shout, im not even allowed a coffee on a morning because he tuts at me and tells me its bad for the baby, i know hes just trying to get as involved as he likes but its not helping at all
 
Oh I drank 2-3 coffees a day couldn't function without them x
 
When it comes to food, as long as its cooked I will probably eat it. My mom said she rarely had restrictions other than raw meat, raw fish, and unpasturized cheese. So thats all I avoid and baby is doing great. No reason to stress over something as silly as food! haha
 
yeah my mum said that she had hardly any restrictions compared to me she said that its silly and i agree with her there are far too many especially with people making things up like peanuts make your baby have an allergy to them
 
The advice I got was all about being sensible, basic food hygeine, no raw meats or fish or undercooked eggs or poorly reheated ready meals/leftovers. However I have to point out that the baby won't build up any immunity while in the womb! Babies aren't born with the same immunities we have built up as adults and infections we get whether food poisoning or general illness are generally not passed on to them but can be devastating if they make us very ill! When baby is born they need protection as can easily succumb to illness as they don't have an established immune system, as they get older and start being independant enough to eat mud pies that's when they are better able to cope with the onslaught of bugs we all deal with every day with no trouble. I don't agree with the culture of anti-bacterial and anti viral everything (anti-viral tissues I saw yesterday - for goodness sake, whats wrong with using an ordinary tissue, throwing it away and washing your hands???) and research has show that a good was or clean with ordinary soap and water is just as effective as the antibacterial stuff we waste so much money on. However when pregnant it makes sense to be a bit more cautious - isn't morning sickness bad enough without adding a bit of the squits from that curry that tasted so good at the time?? Some food/water borne infections are actually very dangerous for you and bump so maybe you should regard potential sources with the same caution you would regard someone with chickenpox (even if you have already had it yourself). No need to get paranoid about it, just stick to simple principles, the list of stuff in the don't list is not actually that long!
xx
 
I've always liked my meat well cooked so that's not a problem for me. My biggest thing was I LOVE cake batter...now I just make it without the eggs and it tastes pretty much the same. I eat seafood (salmon, tilapia, shrimp, crabs) as long as it's cooked of course. I eat peanuts, pineapples, etc...things that the scaremongers say we shouldn't eat. Honestly, to me it's not that serious. I avoid common sense things like raw and unpasteurized stuff...stuff high in preservatives (that's just me anyway)...that's it, though. :thumbup:
 
The first time around I ate nothing on the list except peanuts they were not on the list here in Canada only if a immediate relative had peanut allergy.

This time around not drinking... don't smoke anyway. I am eating mayo and fish although looking for fish with lower mercury levels although still having tuna now and again. I am eating deli meats and I have eaten a few bits of cheese that I am not supposed too. Stopped drinking caffeine...
 
Perdita, you're right of course, but it's about the mindset that people are getting themselves into, not being able to recognise the "absolute no-no"s from the "don't make a habit of"s.
I find it eerily cultish the way some follow every piece of (often misguided/ambiguous) research. I'm very careful, I'd be silly not to be, but I also think that some so-called facts should not be allowed to be bandied around as "truth" when it may come from e.g. very small trial studies, or where only the controversial parts of the study are published
 

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