Ladies, Its been a long time since I've been on these forums. But I need to sound off somewhere and ask people that don't know me what they would do. I don't want to speak to my friends.
I got a blazing BFP today. I was on the pill and didn't even mess up. My hubby and I have 3 other kids and did not want anymore (he was going to get the snip as soon as he had time off). I was feeling so sick and there where a few other symptoms that set the alarm bells ringing. I peed on the stick convinced I was imagining it but theres no mistaking this.
I don't even know what to do. I am worried this may end my marriage, we spoke ages ago and he categorically said he wouldn't be able to love another child. My hubby works away and isn't home for another 2 months so I wouldn't even know how to bring this up on an unstable FaceTime connection! Part of me feels guilty for not being excited like I was with all my others but the other part of me already feels so much love for this tiny bean growing inside me.
What do I do? Crying and staring at a pregnancy test is not solving this problem!!!!
I got a blazing BFP today. I was on the pill and didn't even mess up. My hubby and I have 3 other kids and did not want anymore (he was going to get the snip as soon as he had time off). I was feeling so sick and there where a few other symptoms that set the alarm bells ringing. I peed on the stick convinced I was imagining it but theres no mistaking this.
I don't even know what to do. I am worried this may end my marriage, we spoke ages ago and he categorically said he wouldn't be able to love another child. My hubby works away and isn't home for another 2 months so I wouldn't even know how to bring this up on an unstable FaceTime connection! Part of me feels guilty for not being excited like I was with all my others but the other part of me already feels so much love for this tiny bean growing inside me.
What do I do? Crying and staring at a pregnancy test is not solving this problem!!!!