We have been having troubles picking a name we both like and cant really be shortened etc. etc. but the name we have fallen in love with it the same name my friends little boy has as a middle name. Which is not a big issue I suppose she dosen't seem to bothered by our choice but I dunno if I feel weird about it. Every now and the she uses he LO's first and middle name kina as double barrelled when teling off etc. DH is set on the name now and alough my friend says shes fine with it I dont want to upset her I think Id be really peed if someone we knew picked the same name Does it matter as its not like they have the same first names. What do you all think?