what would you do?

[TaylorsMummyx]

im in a pickle.. my fh and me have decided we want to keep some of the wedding plans i.e colours as a suprise.and trying not to tell anyone. well my sister has kicked off. saying she will know what stuff is anyway cause she will be setting up with me [yes true], and that we are "keeping stuff from her" and she "isnt needed know". she has it in her head that me and her should be planning it all not me and fh.

like today, we met florist and explained what we wanted, when i catched up with sister i told her and fh told me not to say anything, well it all kicked off with her calling us all the names, and that she doesnt want to know anything anymore.

im so confused, i understand where shes coming from i.e being involved as i want her to be, but im pissed that she cant understand i want some suprises, i.e chocolate fountin ect.

 

[Avalanche]

If my sister had that kind of attitude she wouldn't have been my BM tbh! it's not her day and she doesn't need to know everything.

I would tell her she's being inappropriate, but also include her in something. Like maybe plan a surprise at the wedding for your OH that she can help with?

 

[dizzy65]