My OH and I haven't for weeks purely because i feel HORRIBLE! Fat, ugly, stretchmarky and just generally.....eeeeerrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh!! Plus i was/am a bit swollen down there so haven't bothered But, i've put him on a promise tonight (to try and get LO to make an appearance ) but what's this about his cum? I'm sure i've read somewhere that it does something to the cervix? Or have i dreamt it? I know about the swallowing it business but i'm definitely not telling him that!!!