Nimoo
Mummy+wife+Expecting
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okay here i go if you take offensive thats up to you but im not going sit and put what people want to read to make them feel better i will only put my oppinion!!
im 20 i have a 2year old boy ive been with my dh for 5 years married for 4 living together for 4 years in our own home so basically im a teen mum and very proud my son was planned and that was because im in love stable family wise and money wise!! and now we want to expand our family and thats our choice simple as!!
anyway i would just like to say the reason why people judge teen mums is cos of the stereotype hole that theyre in and trust me i dont fall down there, and its very rare any teen mum does!! my son is always dressed well in only the best that there is, always clean and well fed, has the best manners and is super intelligent hey hes just finished potty training in 5 days i dont go out and leave him with anyone, hes always happy and is very much loved by his mummy and daddy!! i personally think if you make the choice to ttc at any ages you have to make sure your bringing them into the best situation possible and be prepared cos babies put alot of strain on a relationship married or not!
oh and by the way im not trying to justify my age or situation im just trying to share some of my info, and im not really fussed if anyone judges cos thats life and i welcome debate its healthy!
im 20 i have a 2year old boy ive been with my dh for 5 years married for 4 living together for 4 years in our own home so basically im a teen mum and very proud my son was planned and that was because im in love stable family wise and money wise!! and now we want to expand our family and thats our choice simple as!!
anyway i would just like to say the reason why people judge teen mums is cos of the stereotype hole that theyre in and trust me i dont fall down there, and its very rare any teen mum does!! my son is always dressed well in only the best that there is, always clean and well fed, has the best manners and is super intelligent hey hes just finished potty training in 5 days i dont go out and leave him with anyone, hes always happy and is very much loved by his mummy and daddy!! i personally think if you make the choice to ttc at any ages you have to make sure your bringing them into the best situation possible and be prepared cos babies put alot of strain on a relationship married or not!
oh and by the way im not trying to justify my age or situation im just trying to share some of my info, and im not really fussed if anyone judges cos thats life and i welcome debate its healthy!