I know most people find out gender around 20 weeks...but is that because most people go in for a 12 week scan and then don't see the doctor again until 20 weeks? My next appointment is February 24th and I will be 14 + 4 at that point...wondering if there is any chance I can find out gender then or will it be another 4-5 weeks? I'm so anxious to know! And to start buying stuff!!!