When did you tell family and friends?

[thepurlqueen]

I only made it to about 4.5 weeks with my bean in June and I hadn't told anyone really. I work at my church with my mil and sil and loads of friends, so when I had to take time off for appts and such they all found out.

I just really don't want to have to have those sad everyone feeling sorry for me conversations again, so I want to wait. Also, I know some people will not appreciate the fact that I have decided to create life for a 5th time, and I want to put off that feeling hurt. I feel like I am being deceitful though. Like I am hiding something. Does that even make sense?

Anyway, when did you tell close family and friends? I likely won't have an early scan or anything, when can I be fairly ok that nothing is going to happen?

 

[Jess&Jay]

I blurped it out to my friends friends I was so excited, I was only about 4wks. It was a dumb move, I personally should of waited because in June I had a chemical pregnancy and lost my little one within days. I told my family later on, few days ago. I dont know why i told them, I knew they werent going to be supportive. but I did and they can kiss my butt ! haha

 

[1st time mam]

I last about 2 days after finding out I was expecting, I have only told my family and close friends and then am going to tell the world when I get my scan in 4 weeks!