When to plan dual Orgasms?

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  1. Willynilly

    Willynilly TTC-cycle 9

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    So - the title kinda says it all - but is it better to climax just after DH, with DH, or just before DH.

    yesterday I was a full minute or two after him and I felt like I was too late - ugh I know I am uber thinking about this - but any suggestions or comments?

    Suck in the :spermy: !!!
     
  2. lissaloo

    lissaloo Well-Known Member

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    i thought it was better after but i could be wrong !!
     
  3. UKMummy

    UKMummy Well-Known Member

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    TBH it doesn't really make much difference to conceiving. I don't recall reaching the big O with any of mine!
     
  4. Minimin

    Minimin Well-Known Member

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    I believe it is after he has. So this way your contractions as you orgasm can pull his swimmers up the cervix and into the uterus- every little bit helps :)
     
  5. Tegans Mama

    Tegans Mama home edding mum of 2

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    After is definitely best :)
     
  6. Kita

    Kita Josiah's Mommy!!

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    I think after makes the most sense.. But I dont see why orgasming WITH him wouldnt work also?? He'd be shooting the precious stuff and Youd be sucking it up.. right?? lol
     
  7. Minimin

    Minimin Well-Known Member

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    I think your right Kita! :)
     
  8. mommy2baby2

    mommy2baby2 Pregnant with #4

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    I believe during! I got pregnant 2x while cumming at the same time. I've also become pregnant by having an orgasm after. In the end, I do not think the timing matters that much!
     
  9. blessedbylife

    blessedbylife Married Mom of 1 & Preggo

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    i actually go ALOT of google searches at bed time... my mind races so i google till i fall asleep! I read recently that anywhere from 5 minutes before to 45 minutes after will help bring the sperm up close to the opening of the cervix and pull them through. GOOD LUCK!
     
  10. goddess25

    goddess25 Well-Known Member

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    Ohh I had never thought about this ever but now that you have posted it, after totally makes sense.
     
  11. Willynilly

    Willynilly TTC-cycle 9

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    wow - great help. thx so much for all your comments, girls!

    babies babies babies to all of us!
     

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