Last time I was pregnant with DS I was too excited and couldn't keep the news to myself. I told everyone immediately. Luckily it all went well! I would like to keep it more private this time. But WHEN is a good time to tell?? I know I won't be able to wait till the end of the first trimester - thats too long. I was thinking maybe around 6 weeks. That would mean only having to stay quiet for another 2 or so. I think I can handle that... I would like to see the heartbeat first. I should see that by then right? I'm assuming my doc will do an U/S by then. She is pretty good about doing them rather frequently. Last pregnancy I had 5... 3 with her, and 2 with my first doctor. When are you tellling people? (Or when did you?) I might tell a few very close friends early... I'm talking about everyone else.