myangel167
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SO im just hoping for some input, I would like to hear some of your thoughts on my situation...
I'm 25, and my husband is 27. We plan on buying our first home towards the end of this year or possibly early next year. He has a good stable job and I am in school still. (I got a late start in college) I'm going into my junior year of college next semester.
I was thinking we would start trying once I'm done with school. BUT, a family member of mine made a good point...I'm home most of the time now, because a lot of my classes can be taken online, and it would be easier to have a newborn/infant NOW while I'm in school and not as busy and tired, rather than when I start my career and will be working full time. Also, it's easier to put a toddler in daycare than a baby. (you dont stress so much about leaving them if you have to) and by the time I'd have a toddler, I'd be starting my career.
ALSO, yes, i know being a parent is difficult, stressful, incredibly exhausting, etc. But i also know how wonderful it could be. It has also crossed my mind that by the time I had a toddler I might want to start working on baby #2, which would be even more difficult. So...i'm just wanting to hear your thoughts. Especially if you already have children.
I think maybe I am just thinking this way to rationalize my baby fever or something...but it seems sort of true, right?
I'm 25, and my husband is 27. We plan on buying our first home towards the end of this year or possibly early next year. He has a good stable job and I am in school still. (I got a late start in college) I'm going into my junior year of college next semester.
I was thinking we would start trying once I'm done with school. BUT, a family member of mine made a good point...I'm home most of the time now, because a lot of my classes can be taken online, and it would be easier to have a newborn/infant NOW while I'm in school and not as busy and tired, rather than when I start my career and will be working full time. Also, it's easier to put a toddler in daycare than a baby. (you dont stress so much about leaving them if you have to) and by the time I'd have a toddler, I'd be starting my career.
ALSO, yes, i know being a parent is difficult, stressful, incredibly exhausting, etc. But i also know how wonderful it could be. It has also crossed my mind that by the time I had a toddler I might want to start working on baby #2, which would be even more difficult. So...i'm just wanting to hear your thoughts. Especially if you already have children.
I think maybe I am just thinking this way to rationalize my baby fever or something...but it seems sort of true, right?