When will I feel better?:(

[HCH 10]

Hi everyone. Just had to try to get some advice from people who know how this feels. Five weeks since missed miscarriage at 13+2 and just started back at work. I work in the hospital where I had my baby girl and my miscarriage so no privacy for me in there! Today I have seen so many pregnant women, the dr who did my d&c and a colleague who is at the stage of pregnancy I should now be. Such a tough day not only missed by daughter so badly working 13 hour shifts but I'm still so hurt losing the little one just waiting for this hurt to lift or at least become easier xx

 

[T Bell]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks 4 days this past Thursday and I am feeling very sad as well. I am so sorry that you work where everything happen, but take comfort in the fact that there are so many caring people here who will listen and talk to you. I am still bleeding from mine and hoping that when that stops I can begin to move on. Stay strong and know that it's possible that something was wrong and that it was not you. Keep your head up. Thinking about you.

 

[StarrySkies]

I'm so sorry for your loss

I'm still feeling very sorry for myself aswell and it's been 9 weeks now since my MC
It doesn't feel like this sadness will ever go. I does get easier or so I'm told but it just seems so far away and it's so much harder too when you are around pregnant women. There's a couple of mums on the school run at the moment who are around about the same stage as I was and what I would have been now yet everytime I see them I just feel even more sad about my MC

It's so hard tring to find the light at the end of the tunnel but I hope we get there and start to feel a bit better soon.. Take care of yourself
xxxx

 

[Andypanda6570]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss I promise things will get better, but it takes time. I lost my Ava at 20 weeks on 3/3/2011 and we buried her on 3/11/2011 and honestly only now 10 months later do i feel stronger and have come to terms with loosing her. A lot of people have told me it takes a year or so just to be able to accept and move forward, that was true for me.

Just know and believe you will feel better and you will be able to smile again.
If you ever need to talk I am here.. Andrea

 

[HCH 10]

Thank you all so much for replying. I'm so glad that I can say how I really feel instead of keeping it all in and pretending I'm not broken hearted. Andrea I'm so sorry to hear of a loss so late in your pregnancy but knowing you got to start feeling some way better gives me huge hope. Because the loss was over a month ago no one mentions it now and it's almost like it never happend. The newborns I work with almost don't bother me because they r not my babies, it's more the pregnant women who I feel sad around. Luckily I care a great deal about my job and would never show it in front of them. My OH is keen for us to try again but I'm not ready yet which is strange because I did always thought if this ever happend to me I would just want to get pregnant again but now it feels like I'm being disrespectful to the little baby lost. I don't suppose I'm mentally or physically strong enough just yet to cope worrying do much about the pregnancy, that is if I'm lucky enough to conceive again. Thanks everyone it's so nice to get these feeling out!! Xxx