Who Could be the Father? Please offer genuine opinions and no judgment. Thank you =)

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  1. EagerB

    EagerB Member

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    Ladies, I need help determining who could be the father.

    I had intercourse with Guy #1 September 2nd & 7th. He did not attempt pulling out either time. I had intercourse with Guy #2 the night of September 9th & morning of September 10th. He pulled out but neither of us know if he got out in time. I took a plan B the morning of September 10th. (The damage could’ve been already done, I’m not sure). I took a pregnancy test Oct. 8th and was positive. According to LMP, due date is May 29th, 2020! According to ultrasounds at different places, I’ve gotten June 2nd, 5th & 6th!

    My last period was August 23rd. I typically have a 28-29 day cycle every single month. July to August was a 33 day cycle for whatever reason. According to my app, I ovulated September 8th but can’t be 100% sure on that. Guy #2 and I have spent $1,400 & the last 4 months having to get samples redone for the prenatal dna test which could very well yield inaccurate results and it’s killing me. Please let me know what you guys think. Which is more like to be the father? I know I should have been more careful, but I wasnt
     
  2. Beccaboo828

    Beccaboo828 Well-Known Member

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    I wouldn't like to say. I just wanted to say good luck. I hope it's the guy you want it to be xx
     
  3. smileyfaces

    smileyfaces Well-Known Member

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    Could go either way. Absolutelt no way of knowing. Good luck, i hope you get the outcome you want x
     
  4. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    It could be either one as the dates were very close together. The only way to know is to do a DNA test once the baby is born. Good luck
     
  5. EagerB

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    Thank you. Definitely hoping and praying it’s Guy #1. Guy #2 & I are suooosed to get results back between 2 & 5 today. Hopefully there’s no run around and they’re accurate.
     
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  6. EagerB

    EagerB Member

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    Definitely way too close. Thank you for your reply
     
  7. EagerB

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    Thank you. Me, too.
     
  8. Beccaboo828

    Beccaboo828 Well-Known Member

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    Good luck! I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling x
     
  9. EagerB

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    Thank you & Completely mortified. Neither are ready for a child but Guy 1 has been there and has agreed to be there but he does not know about Guy 2... Guy 2 doesn’t even care to know the results, so he’s perfectly fine with not knowing he may have a kiddo. Just did the test because I begged for my own knowledge. Very sad situation.
     
  10. MiissMuffet

    MiissMuffet Well-Known Member

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    Too close it could be either. Hugs xx
     
  11. JessaBear36

    JessaBear36 Well-Known Member

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    Only way to know for sure is to do a DNA test after baby is born. Otherwise your guess is as good as mine.
     
    #11 JessaBear36, Feb 15, 2020 at 6:22 PM
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  12. Kiwiberry

    Kiwiberry Mommy to 3 miracles

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    Guy #2 paid that much money for a DNA test of a baby he doesn't care to know? That makes no sense :(.

    Good luck!
     
  13. EagerB

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    thank you. Yea i has intercourse with Guy 1 on the 1st & 7th & possibly ovulated on the 8th.... could’ve been sperm left from one of those days or I could’ve ovulated later and that not be the case. My brain is fried replaying it all
     
  14. EagerB

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    We split the cost.
     
  15. OnErth&InHvn

    OnErth&InHvn Mom to 4

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    I would have told you to save the money, child support will do the test for Free!
     

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