Who do people think they are? :@ UPDATE PG2

[AyaChan]

So FOB's family got a shock last week.
His cousin suddenly popped out a baby.
No-one knew she was pregnant, not even her.

She went into hospital after having severe pains in her stomach, so they scanned her, to find out she was in full blown labour.
She wasn't showing or anything, and only weighs about 7 stone.

Since she didn't know she was pregnant, she took the pill the entire way through, had all 3 cervical cancer jabs, and due to her asthma also had the swine flu jab.

Baby Naomi was born was no left arm, limited use of her right arm, and a hole in her heart.

Now I've known this girl since yr7 as she was in my form at school.
And I feel so bad for her.
It must be so scary finding out your in the middle of having a child you knew nothing about, let alone that she's severly disabled.

Well anyways, back to the point of the title to this thread.
Some other girls from our school commented her on facebook last night and were all:

Girl one:"OMG YOUR PREGNANT!?!"
Girl two:"SERIOUSLY!?!"
Girl one:"Yeahh look down below"
Girl two:"Well it doesn't surprise me"

It just really pisses me off, because they don't know anything about what she's going through, and they just judge her.
"It doesn't surprise me" is such a harsh comment, because she's not the sort of person to go sleeping around with everyone, and she was taking precautions.
They have no right to comment saying anything!
I wish people would just stay out of things they know nothing about.

 

[halas]

thats so mean who do they think they are , hows she taking it it would be quite a shock and hows the baby doing

 

[AyaChan]

I haven't heard much else, but she herself is doing fine.
They thought baby was going to die, and switched off her breathing machine, but thankfully she started breathing on her own then.
She's been transferred to Bristol now for a heart op.
FX'ed everything goes ok for her

x

 

[futuremommy91]

I'm glad to hear the baby is breathing okay- and I hope mum is doing okay too! She clearly didn't know she was pregnant as she was on the pill and had the jabs, but I hope she doesn't blame herself. Best of luck to her and her baby.

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

OMG.. i know what people are like though :/ but especially when you're going trhough that, it's the last thing you'd want.. i'd be furious!!
and deffo let her know you're there for her, and we've all got our fingers crossed for her!!
and she's so brave - i think i would have not coped very well if i hadn't known and then been faced with that situation!!
hope they both are doing well!! send them our love!
xxxx

 

[xMissxZoiex]

Omg, Poor girl she must be in shock!, She needs all the help and support she can get she must be so scared i want to just give her a big hug

Those girls have no right to say anything about her, they obviously have no idea what she is going through

I hope both mum and baby are well and baby gets though her heart op ok

Zoie
xxxx

 

[nicholatmn]

OMG, I really hope that baby continues to be okay!
But that pisses me off what those girls said. What right do people have to say crap like that? I hope karma comes back around to them!

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

Omg.. what a massive shock for her! Good luck to her and baby Naomi, hope the heart op goes well.

Shocking how people can behave, in situations like that people need to be showing support, not sticking their noses in and making everything alot worse for her.

xoxox

 

[amygwen]

Aww that poor girl. I feel so bad for her.

I can't even imagine being pregnant, not knowing & then popping out a child whose severely disabled. And then dealing with that kinda immature crap on FB. Some people are so rude!

I hope everything goes well for mommy & baby Naomi from this point forward.

 

[hopeandpray]

i hate the way people presume that people that get pregnant are somehow sluttier than girls that have sex and don't get pregnant. didnt they ever learn bio. an egg and sperm meet you dont have to do anything kinky
hope that baby gets healthy soon and big for her mum. she must be in such shock. its so amazing that she started breathing on her own. what a little fighter

 

[amandad192]

Aww that must be soo scary. Going into hospital not knowing your pregnant and being told your in labour, I can't even imagine how she must have felt when they told her! It took me a few months after finding out I was pregnant to come to terms with the fact that I was going to have to go through labour.

I hope Baby Naomi gets through her heart op okay.
What did she weigh at birth if mummy was only 7 stone??

As for the girls on FB..all I can say is Grrrr F*** off and grow up!!


Keep us updated please.

 

[AyaChan]

i still don't know birth weight.

I'm seeing OH on thursday, so hopefully I'll know more then


thank you for all the nice comments girls, it's good she has people thinking about her and Naomi at this time

xx

 

[Lizzieeeee x]

aaaawwww bless her and the baby.
It must have been so scary for her.
And them girls sound like F**CKING BITCHES !
They should be supporting her and be there for her not be so immature !
I hope everything goes well and she gets better soon xxx

 

[AyaChan]

Baby Naomi weighed 4lbs 3oz when she was born, but now weighs 4lbs 5oz.

So thats another good sign

xx

 

[AyaChan]

oh and the girls who know nothing, have now deleted their comments, and the one is all "You soo have to get a pic up, loves ya"

grrr they make me so mad! How can someone be so fake!

 

[Boony]

Aww poor girl i cant imagine how scared she must have been.

Hope Naomis op goes well, shes obviously a fighter bless her.

 

[trashit]

Oh dear, i do hope she continues getting better! How horrible of them evil witches, some people are just cruel, really riles me!! I am thinking of her too, wish her all the best xx

 

[Lilicat]

Good luck to baby Naomi and her mum. Fingers crossed everything goes well for them both and they get lots of help and support.

I hope one day those girls grow up and look back with horror that they could have been so immature and nasty particularly in such a public way.

 

[leoniebabey]

aw poor girl, it must have been such a shock to find out she was in labour and then to find out her child is disabled. best of luck to both of them and hope the baby is okay !

it really does annoy me how girls can be so bitchy and immature when they dont know the situation or anything

x

 

[aiimee12345]

i hope the the baby & the mommy are doing ok now hun?
i cant believe that i feel weird somedays thinkin bout having a baby let alone no knowing and it jus being there :O
she must be feeling so strange!!!

& why do girls do that!!! i put a scan pik on FB as my profile pik girls i dont even talk to that i went to school with have been adding me.... y!?!!?!
and then as if they had a cheek to say to her aww put a pik up loves ya!!!... as soon as u have a baby people that dont even like u want to see the baby... i dont get it!!

hope there both ok!! xxx