i hadnt really thought about this til i relised katie's most probably gona com when the in-laws are here. but how do you decide who's gona visit you first in hospital?? i'd always just been like, well my parents will come as soon as they can and his will see her when they come to stay. but now i'm like, well my parents have been here all along and stuff, so should they come first to see her, or should his, cos they've missed out on the whole prgnancy thing. or do they let both sets in at first??