Or with you while in labour if you are having a home birth. Its probbably allready been asked before but since so many ladys have moved on and since we have got loads of new people in im asking again. Who will be with you and why? Il be having OH and my mam. OH cos well i need him, I cant spend a night away from him with out being able to sleep. My mam because she will keep me focused and tell me to get a grip if i start freaking out.