i hear ya Kelsey ,
my hubby ad i decided that if it turns out to be a no for us this cycle . we will wait until feb to start to go again .. our sons bday in oct so we dont want to have to "share" that .. oy i am just getting so doubtful about it actually happening this time . .. AF ended today so i guess we can start . but with everything going on right now i have to force myself to .. not sure what to do ..
Just think positive!! I swear it helps SO much!! I'm always feeling down and negative about getting a BFP when I have AF but then I start feeling more optimistic when I approach my O!! You CAN do it this cycle! Think positive!! It's hard during the holidays so when you do BD just make it count!!

plenty of people on here get pg the ONE time they only BD a couple times a cycle

it only takes 1

out of millions to get to that egg!! You can do it!!
We did end up BDing this morning even though AF isn't fully gone. She is loads lighter though so wasn't so bad. No mess

. First BD of this cycle yay! Sticking to EOD as last month OH got a bit worn out by the time I ovulated! x
Hehehe see it wasn't that bad was it?!?!? plus it gets the BFP hunt on that much sooner!!

hehe. So excited for you!!
Woah I missed so much around here!
Anyway when I put my temps in this morning, FF told me I ovulated on CD9. Augh that makes me want to throw up because (a) that's so EARLY and my eggs were probably not ready yet and (b) we did BD that night, but it was the first time in WEEKS and I'm sure all the spermies were probably dead.
All I can hope is that FF is wrong and I have yet to ovulate, but I did feel that weird pinch that I had last month but on the left side this time and that was on CD9 too.
From what I have heard you will not release an egg unless it is ready to be released (mature)! So hopefully if you did O it was ready! Don't beat yourself up, it could totally happen!!! Weird question but does your DH masturbate? Maybe he did within those weeks? I hope you got your egg! I think you should continue to BD though!! Just in case!!