Who's testing in December?! :) Lucky Thread :) 5 BFPs!!!

Yeah the reason I started testing is because I wanted to know if I'm one of those people that O while they're on their period, or late, or if I don't O at all, but it hasn't really helped me figure that out yet lol. And a weeks worth of tests are like $13 so a whole month of them :wacko: and doing it multiple times a day would be even more. If I want to have a baby I should be saving money not spending it on pee sticks haha! Also since I was out of town for the holidays I didn't get to test or temp or BD or anything, so who knows. And of course I'll be going out of town next month for holidays too... Holidays are really a hard time to ttc, but I'm hoping hoping hoping that it worked this month. It would be the best holiday present ever. And I would love to take a pic of a + preg test and wrap it up and give it to our parents for the holidays haha. Mine would probably have a heart attack. :haha:
 
That would be such an awesome present :) I'm going to do that to DH if I get my + :) I'm going to go out and get a little outfit or something that says I <3 Daddy and wrap it up with a test :) I REALLY hope it happens this cycle!!
 
That would be such an awesome present :) I'm going to do that to DH if I get my + :) I'm going to go out and get a little outfit or something that says I <3 Daddy and wrap it up with a test :) I REALLY hope it happens this cycle!!

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I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...
 
I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...

Sorry to hear about your MCs :( That's never fun. Hang in there and remember that stress isn't good for baby making. And don't buy any clothes if it's gonna make you sad - a hug and a "Guess what!" makes a perfectly fine way of telling OH that you got a BFP :D
 
True that :smug: But I wish I could just KNOW that I can have a baby and just start buying all the bottles and toys and clothes and this and that, that seems to be most of the fun of getting ready for a baby... I sure do hope this month is our month and all of our pregnancies end up good and healthy. :hugs:
 
AF is due dec 16, when is the earliest I could test without a false negative?
 
AF is due dec 16, when is the earliest I could test without a false negative?

Everyone is different... there are the early tests that do it 6 days before missed period, but if you read the box they are not completely accurate at that time and get more accurate with each day. If you want to be sure I would wait until the 16th, but even then it may not show up and some women never get a positive throughout their whole pregnancy. Good luck!
 
I've gotten about 6 BFN's this month, I only had AF for one day this cycle (usually lasts 4-6 days) and I have been having pregnancy symptoms. If my calculations are correct I am 30dpo, and currently cd17 in this cycle. I noticed CM again after my calculated ovulation period last month, so anything could be going on. My last/first pregnancy ended in a MC and I didn't take a HPT until I was 2 cycles late (wasn't keeping track of things, until I thought about it). All of my HPT's as of last week were negative, I see the Dr. on Thursday. I don't think I am pregnant, but I am a little concerned. Really holding out for a BFP in December though. I can test as early as the 5th of December. If I get a BFN we will be trying for January. I think I will be starting Metformin after Thursdays appt. if Dr. gives me a BFN, to keep my PCOS in check. Husband ordered Pre-Seed too.
 
I would love to wrap a BFP in an outfit for my Husband! Sweet thought.
 
I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...

Sorry to hear about your MCs :( That's never fun. Hang in there and remember that stress isn't good for baby making. And don't buy any clothes if it's gonna make you sad - a hug and a "Guess what!" makes a perfectly fine way of telling OH that you got a BFP :D


Everyone is different but the chances of reoccurring MC's (esp. 3 or more) don't happen often in a row, unless there is an underlying issue. I've been trying to read statistics so I know what to expect as we try again to conceive. I will be excited for a BFP but since my MC- I am weary of announcing until I'm sure all is well. I have a box of clothes, and my "what to expect when you are expecting" arrived days after my MC. Very disheartening. But, I believe you should stay positive, stress isn't well for you or a baby. Keeping positive thoughts may help with your fertility and wellness.... who knows! Our bodies are a mystery.
 
December 6th for me! We've had a crazy month even though not actively TTC hopefully we have a chance! :happydance:
 
I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...

Sorry to hear about your MCs :( That's never fun. Hang in there and remember that stress isn't good for baby making. And don't buy any clothes if it's gonna make you sad - a hug and a "Guess what!" makes a perfectly fine way of telling OH that you got a BFP :D


Everyone is different but the chances of reoccurring MC's (esp. 3 or more) don't happen often in a row, unless there is an underlying issue. I've been trying to read statistics so I know what to expect as we try again to conceive. I will be excited for a BFP but since my MC- I am weary of announcing until I'm sure all is well. I have a box of clothes, and my "what to expect when you are expecting" arrived days after my MC. Very disheartening. But, I believe you should stay positive, stress isn't well for you or a baby. Keeping positive thoughts may help with your fertility and wellness.... who knows! Our bodies are a mystery.

Thanks for that, that makes me feel better knowing I shouldn't have another one *fingers crossed*. I feel the same way about telling people, my OH wants to tell everyone right away when we get a BFP, but I want to wait until we're 2 or 3 months just to be sure... He was sad about the MC's, but I guess men don't feel it the same way we do, all weary for the next one and what not.
 
I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...

Sorry to hear about your MCs :( That's never fun. Hang in there and remember that stress isn't good for baby making. And don't buy any clothes if it's gonna make you sad - a hug and a "Guess what!" makes a perfectly fine way of telling OH that you got a BFP :D


Everyone is different but the chances of reoccurring MC's (esp. 3 or more) don't happen often in a row, unless there is an underlying issue. I've been trying to read statistics so I know what to expect as we try again to conceive. I will be excited for a BFP but since my MC- I am weary of announcing until I'm sure all is well. I have a box of clothes, and my "what to expect when you are expecting" arrived days after my MC. Very disheartening. But, I believe you should stay positive, stress isn't well for you or a baby. Keeping positive thoughts may help with your fertility and wellness.... who knows! Our bodies are a mystery.

Thanks for that, that makes me feel better knowing I shouldn't have another one *fingers crossed*. I feel the same way about telling people, my OH wants to tell everyone right away when we get a BFP, but I want to wait until we're 2 or 3 months just to be sure... He was sad about the MC's, but I guess men don't feel it the same way we do, all weary for the next one and what not.

Nazz4 I got another + OPK on cd 20 but for the first time I got + opk with FMU ...strange for me
 
Damn bitch stop Ovulatin'!!! :winkwink: Fertile Myrtle over here, I hope you're BDing! lol
 
AF is due dec 16, when is the earliest I could test without a false negative?

I agree with Nazz.. Testing the date of your expected period would be best, maybe even a couple days after if you can hold out. As for me, I start testing 6 days before because I just can't help it :haha: :dust:

I've gotten about 6 BFN's this month, I only had AF for one day this cycle (usually lasts 4-6 days) and I have been having pregnancy symptoms. If my calculations are correct I am 30dpo, and currently cd17 in this cycle. I noticed CM again after my calculated ovulation period last month, so anything could be going on. My last/first pregnancy ended in a MC and I didn't take a HPT until I was 2 cycles late (wasn't keeping track of things, until I thought about it). All of my HPT's as of last week were negative, I see the Dr. on Thursday. I don't think I am pregnant, but I am a little concerned. Really holding out for a BFP in December though. I can test as early as the 5th of December. If I get a BFN we will be trying for January. I think I will be starting Metformin after Thursdays appt. if Dr. gives me a BFN, to keep my PCOS in check. Husband ordered Pre-Seed too.

Glad you're going to the dr... that must be so frustrating! I've heard of girls being pregnant and not get a + HPT until after 7 weeks so who knows! If you aren't PG right now though maybe you will get your December BFP!! It's those weird crazy cycles sometimes that end up being the ones that get us pregnant!! Let us know what happens on Thursday :) :dust::dust:

December 6th for me! We've had a crazy month even though not actively TTC hopefully we have a chance! :happydance:

Yay!!!!!! I hope you get your December BFP!!!!!!! :dust:

Damn bitch stop Ovulatin'!!! :winkwink: Fertile Myrtle over here, I hope you're BDing! lol

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hi

today I am on cd 20...I got positive OPK on cd 13 ,15 then got negative opk on cd 17 and cd 18...again I got super positive opk on cd 19...and positive opk on cd 20 but with FMU...I never got + OPK with FMU before this...we did BD on cd 13,14,16,17,20 I hope that I have covered the basis...now FF shows cross hairs on cd 13 so according to that I am 7 DPO...I am having watery stretchy cm ...my question is that I am confused I got negative OPK on cd 17 and 18...then again got + OPK on cd 19 and cd 20...what does it mean ? is there anyone who had gone through similar situation and got BFP later on ?
 
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today I am on cd 20...I got positive OPK on cd 13 ,15 then got negative opk on cd 17 and cd 18...again I got super positive opk on cd 19...and positive opk on cd 20 but with FMU...I never got + OPK with FMU before this...we did BD on cd 13,14,16,17,20 I hope that I have covered the basis...now FF shows cross hairs on cd 13 so according to that I am 7 DPO...I am having watery stretchy cm ...my question is that I am confused I got negative OPK on cd 17 and 18...then again got + OPK on cd 19 and cd 20...what does it mean ? is there anyone who had gone through similar situation and got BFP later on ?

I would think ff would put the cross hairs on cd 19 or 20, weird.
My Ov test today was the lightest it's been the whole time I've been testing :wacko: keeps going darker then lighter then darker then lighter... I have 2 left so hopefully it happens in the next couple days, if not maybe I missed it. I had ov pain yesterday and the day before though so whatever that means...
 
I'm too scared to get clothes bc of 2 MC's and OH's problem, I'm wondering if we even CAN have a baby :nope: don't want to buy clothes that are just going to sit around and make me sad...

Sorry to hear about your MCs :( That's never fun. Hang in there and remember that stress isn't good for baby making. And don't buy any clothes if it's gonna make you sad - a hug and a "Guess what!" makes a perfectly fine way of telling OH that you got a BFP :D


Everyone is different but the chances of reoccurring MC's (esp. 3 or more) don't happen often in a row, unless there is an underlying issue. I've been trying to read statistics so I know what to expect as we try again to conceive. I will be excited for a BFP but since my MC- I am weary of announcing until I'm sure all is well. I have a box of clothes, and my "what to expect when you are expecting" arrived days after my MC. Very disheartening. But, I believe you should stay positive, stress isn't well for you or a baby. Keeping positive thoughts may help with your fertility and wellness.... who knows! Our bodies are a mystery.

Thanks for that, that makes me feel better knowing I shouldn't have another one *fingers crossed*. I feel the same way about telling people, my OH wants to tell everyone right away when we get a BFP, but I want to wait until we're 2 or 3 months just to be sure... He was sad about the MC's, but I guess men don't feel it the same way we do, all weary for the next one and what not.

Nazz4 I got another + OPK on cd 20 but for the first time I got + opk with FMU ...strange for me


It is hard to go through a MC, it seems that only others who have went through one know how it feels, or know how to comfort best. My husband was with me every step of the way, but I know he didn't understood what and how I felt. My husband was sad, but he didn't feel the loss the way I did, he didn't carry the child and feel what I got to feel. I don't think men know how to react, I've heard most get attached when they first hold the child. We hold them from the second they are conceived, and we feel that special bond. I feel sick about it everyday, I am heart broken... I don't think he thinks of it as often as I do, or feels the pain as deeply as I do. I'm so glad to have found babyandbump- it is a great way to talk about hope, loss, excitement, worries... etc. I think my family and friends get a little tired of me over obsessing about ttc, but I think it is normal (you all made me believe that I'm still sane, and not baby obsessed). :hugs:
 
Hey ladies - I'm gonna vent for a second. So I had creamy cm the last four days and we BD'd the last 3. Today I woke up to what I'm now sure is ovulation pains as I felt the same thing around the same time last month but on the right side - this month, they're on the left (feels like a stitch you get when running only like inside the pelvic bone). I checked cm and sure enough, for the first time in forever is ewcm. So I'm a bit confused - I thought ewcm was supposed to show up before ovulation, but if I'm having ovulation pain, then . . . . what's the deal? I guess we should BD today and then when can we stop. I'm not a super sexual person and I'm getting a bit weary of reading romance novels to get in the mood haha.
 

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