why 2 weeks?

[castana]

I want to start ttc now but.my OH said in a few weeks. I asked him why he said he just wants to wait a couple of weeks??? Grrrrr how anoying

 

[apreslaube]

That's an odd amount of time! Does he think you will change your mind in a couple weeks? Does he not want to have sex? Hmm

 

[castana]

There was a little upset in our family a month ago and he said he didnt feel right just wanted to wait until he felt better. No sex as in baby making but everything else if u know what i mean. I know hes nervous about nxt step but im not backing down

 

[Katerina_]

There was a little upset in our family a month ago and he said he didnt feel right just wanted to wait until he felt better.

I hope everything works out for you and your husband. Maybe he is just not ready yet or has some fears? I don't know what was the upset in your family, but could it be that it affected your husband more significantly than you think? Just suggestions...

 

[Pearls18]

When are you next ovulating? Might not make a difference!

 

[castana]

I have been testing for couple of weeks and today 12 days after my period finished i got 2 lines so probably now. I got my implant out over 2 weeks ago after it was out after 3 days we didnt use anything so I was hoping id be one of the lucky ones that got caught but thats obv not happened. I just had it all worked out when i want to ttc and due to a minor family problem he felt all upset and just said not just now wait a few weeks until he felt better. Iv waited so long to get going and when the time comes something always happens. I think ill just need to sit tight until nxt month

 

[Pearls18]

I'm sorry hun, I hope you can sit down and chat about it before next month.

 

[Kittycat155]

I would be a little concerned if a minor family problem put him off trying. Sounds like he is not as on board with it as you are or he sees it as more then minor.

 

[castana]

Ye kittykat I think he has got nervous about it. We have been together 6 years and me saying right lets do it hes prob thought ohhh nooo. I know all will be ok its just getting him used to the idea as its always been just me n him. He has not said no but im not taking any protection so iv put the ball in his court now x so nice to have this forum and get your feelings out x

 

[castana]

Well just to add i think my OH had a bump on the head and DTD .. I tested ovulation that day and it was pos .. good timing hubby lol